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commentr/StutterApr 27, 2024
1 points

It sounds like an anxiety dump more than actual stuttering fixing. I get caught a lot because I try to speak without air in my lungs which causes me to lock up and then I start making weird sounds and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2024
8 points

I think, feared letters (in your case, the letters t, p and k) are a consequence of experiencing failure on those sounds. The point I'm trying to make is: failure in itself, is not the problem. Babies...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2024
3 points

If u stutter, just own it. No one really cares, but you. Being prepared helps me alot! Good luck man! Or maybe have a beer first, that also helps haha....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice RequestsRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2024
4 points

Try to be fit. Expand your vocabulary so u can replace the word you're stuck on with a synonym. Learn to keep control of ur nerves. Easier said than done, but better start now than never....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2024
8 points

Everyone knows you have a stutter! Sounds like a no shit but when you start applying to life and stop trying to “talk normally” and let yourself just flow through social interactions knowing you can...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2024
3 points

Easier said than done but just stutter your way through it, what's the worst that can happen I mean she's already not beside you....

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commentr/StutterApr 26, 2024
2 points

Unless this is your first time talking to her ever, she already knows you stutter. Periods of very mild stuttering may seem perfectly fluent to us, but people still notice. I promise you she doesn't c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2024
3 points

Honestly it’s not a big deal, my best friend for over 20 years has heard huge blocks from me. I’ve asked her like hey do you notice I stutter and what do you think about it ? She tells me it’s just h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2024
3 points

In my experience, when I presented my masters thesis, I did not disclose and the while process was excruciating painful and mentally exhausting (I still graduated, but had I disclosed, I would have ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2024
3 points

100% agree. Very often, this is when I stutter much less. I just keep forgetting it from time to time 😂...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionCycles & Randomness
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2024
3 points

Got it sir! Thanks for the input. I usually observe a lot and make tricks. For words starting with c,k i made a trick that was to keep toungue at the base of the mouth and then speak. Works sometimes ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2024
3 points

It probably won’t help now, but for future interviews and stressful situations, consider getting a prescription forpropranolol. It’s not controlled, so doctors usually give it out pretty easily. It’s ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterApr 25, 2024
29 points

if you're hopeless, read

if you're hopeless, read i know you'll find yourself in me. i have psychogenic stuttering, caused by some supressed traumas. every time I think about a sentence, I notice a word i'll probably stutte...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension+2 more
postr/StutterApr 25, 2024
9 points

if you're hopeless, read

if you're hopeless, read i know you'll find yourself in me. i have psychogenic stuttering, caused by some supressed traumas. every time I think about a sentence, I notice a word i'll probably stutt...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2024
4 points

Same here, I guess finding the good words in English or any other foreign language + trying to speak fluently in general is something extra for us. I don't know how your English conversations are, b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesEnergy & Biological Rhythms
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2024
2 points

I stutter when I get nervous and then I get nervous when I stutter. Or sometimes I don't say my words loud enough and then someone asks me to repeat what I've just said and I try to repeat it without ...

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Situational VariabilityAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 24, 2024
13 points

Your mind knows no limits

Your mind knows no limits So back in November 2022 whenever I was on my entrepreneurial journey, I was trying literally everything (dropshipping, amazon, forex, everything under the sun) Then one day ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2024
2 points

I'm more relaxed about word substitution. I used to get annoyed at myself for avoiding words and using other words that were less than ideal. So I started forcing through the word I wanted to use, but...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2024
2 points

I'm 27, have stuttered all my life. I picked up some bad habits to deal with my stutter (like swearing a LOT, for some reason, swearing helps get past it), though something that helped me actually wo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStrategic Swearing/CursingSituational Variability+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2024
3 points

Exactly if you can pronounce those words perfectly when you’re talking to yourself then it has to do with being scared of pronouncing them in public...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution