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commentr/StutterMar 31, 2025
3 points

And therein lies the problem! You’d be surprised though, most people are pretty understanding if you disclose your stutter. And if they don’t, so be it! Dealing with ignorant people is just a fact of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterMar 31, 2025
8 points

New Podcast Episode: Interior Designer Shares Her Journey with Stuttering, Self-Acceptance & Empathy

New Podcast Episode: Interior Designer Shares Her Journey with Stuttering, Self-Acceptance & Empathy Hey everyone 👋 I just dropped a new episode of my podcast *Stutter Chats*, and this one really hi...

Community & SupportSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesEmployment & CareerAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/stutteringMar 30, 2025
1 points

Yes I do. I even considered changing my first name because of it. If it is a group I will share that I stutter with someone (who seems safe) and ask them to introduce me. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterMar 30, 2025
4 points

Share Your Recent Positive Speaking Experiences!!

Share Your Recent Positive Speaking Experiences!! Hey Fellow Stutterers! I would love to see some positive speaking experiences that people have had over the past few weeks-months. I often see a lot...

Community & SupportSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2025
3 points

Is it best to tell them at the start of the interview or send an email requesting the recruiter to inform them of it before? A lawyer gave me advice and told me to do the latter....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2025
3 points

Lucky you have the opportunity at all. I have only had a couple jobs exceed a year because people are awful. No matter what I do! The only thing I can do for an interview is drive around a little be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Preparation & RehearsalDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2025
9 points

Counterintuitive but you should really tell them what's happening so they don't assume/wonder/make their own weird assumptions. If you own it, they'll be more comfortable...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2025
1 points

Speaking on the phone used to be impossible for me as a teen, but no longer is as an adult for some reason. What I would recommend based on what I know now, and hindsight, is that disclosing your stut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2025
1 points

Are you in the UK? I'm thinking if I should disclose stammering at an interview or in my application form. Correct me if I am wrong: In the UK, if you do not tell your employer about your stammer,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2025
1 points

You could write up a short statement that says "I stutter" and give it to the optician "I can't say the letters W, R, or L. If I see one of those letters, I'm going to say 'banana' (or 'zorro', or w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2025
1 points

Yo it's CRAZY how much this happens!!!! I was telling my co worker that I don't like talking on the radio because of my stutter. You know, bringing it out there, not letting it control me, not trying ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2025
1 points

Putting it out in the open helps so much. As talking on the phone is especially difficult, I've started just announcing that I have a stutter at the start. In turn, this leads to me almost not stutter...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2025
1 points

Hey mate, not sure what sort of roles you're going for but you can mention in your cover letter and/or interview that you have a stutter but it doesn't affect your work. Every single job interview whe...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerPublic SpeakingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2025
3 points

i would definitely be weirded out by that. i understand why they did it but still odd, i’m sure they had good intentions. if you feel like you want to say something don’t be embarrassed to! they might...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyShame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2025
4 points

“We all stutters sometimes” is annoying and I explain that it a speech impediment. But “I’m also a stutterer” is more tricky because some people are but it doesn’t show except in certain situations....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesSeverity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2025
1 points

Please be aware that everyone who speaks occasionally has repetitions, and within lay society, stutter is used to refer to speech bumps without any emotions attached to the bumps. It’s not an attempt...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Medicalization / NeurodiversityDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2025
1 points

Haha, that's what I suspected, the word doesn't seem to mean a clinical condition to everyone. I've used speech disorder sometimes but wasn't sure if it was "ok". I think I'll def use speech impairmen...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / NeurodiversityDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2025
3 points

Try using speech disorder or speech impairment to get the point across. Stutter is used too casually in society to describe all sort of things, like a TV or video 'stuttering' or fluent people saying ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2025
3 points

"I understand everyone makes small stutters in their speech, but I have a legitimate speech impediment and it's a bit different than common talking mishaps" but said in the "gentle parent" tone. Hope ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2025
2 points

this is the funniest shit to me because I am a terrible liar and it's always a last min choice between honesty and fluency. I try to only do it with people I know I won't see again like working custom...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more