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postr/StutterAug 23, 2023
1 points

Do you subconsciously convince yourself you're gonna stutter when you speak? (like a deep subconscious self-belief that makes you stutter)

Do you subconsciously convince yourself you're gonna stutter when you speak? (like a deep subconscious self-belief that makes you stutter) [View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/15zedst)...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2023
1 points

Getting used to it, sure but honestly how can we be proud of something that limits us? I'm not judging I'm genuinely asking cause I kinda want to explore this idea as well. I definitely feel like stu...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterAug 23, 2023
1 points

Easily offended and/or extremely insecure?

Easily offended and/or extremely insecure? Hey, I've been stuttering for as long as I can remember. I recently found a stuttering meme about a stuttering phone number/hotline/I don't remember and it h...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2023
1 points

Hi there! So, from the looks of it you’re stuttering from fear of inferiority. You may be going into the situation with high anxiety, putting these people on a pedestal, carrying the belief that they’...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2023
1 points

I would turn from a shy to confident person. I would make my friends laugh. My parents would see me as responsible and confident and let me travel abroad. I would make new friends easily. I would part...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2023
1 points

Nope I have a stutter, that’s it. I struggle to get words out. Is it easy? Nope, am I less attractive because of it nope? Nope, I’ve had many girlfriends has it makes me interesting, not completely ...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
1 points

Always person becomes more attractive when they know how to express them self it not only physical attractiveness that matter mostly if we consider all these im below average human being 😓...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterAug 21, 2023
1 points

Does anyone feel like they’re less attractive because of your stutter?

Does anyone feel like they’re less attractive because of your stutter? I’d like to think I’m a good looking guy. But I can’t help but feel that every time I open my mouth I go from an 8/10 to a 1/10. ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2023
1 points

Yes, I'm sure these events and feeling sound familiar or imaginable for most of us here. I've been stuttering for as long as I can remember, any kind of presentation was always closely connected to an...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2023
1 points

ohhh im not that bad it's just with certain people like my boss it's not severe stuttering but it definitely belittles me which i don't like cause i wanna hold my self up and be outspoken instead of ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterAug 20, 2023
1 points

Follow me on Patreon!

Follow me on Patreon! Hi there, I’m Taylor! I’ve been an active member on r/Stutter for quite some time now. I’ve built connections with many of you and have been here through a lot of the highs and ...

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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2023
3 points

I’m not upset about having a stutter. I’m 54M and talk the same way I have as a child, with a little self-control. Got on SSDI due to having a severe stutter and a hand issue....

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2023
17 points

22F here and I’m also glad you’re happy. However you gotta understand that most stutterers(and people in this subreddit) are men. Therefore, they don’t even remotely receive the same treatment as us a...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2023
38 points

It’s different for guys. Being seen as not confident, weak and strange. For me personally, it’s ruined my life. It may be cute quirk for some but debilitating for others. As long as your confident i...

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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2023
2 points

My stutter is mosty gone, and ngl I do kinda miss it. I still have little bits, mild blocking and a slight lisp but no where near the individuality my speech used to have. Lowkey sucks even though it ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2023
2 points

You mentioned that self esteem is a contributing factor for him. How familiar is he with the concept of openly stuttering? It’s more a mindset than a strategy, and I have to admit that I’ve only suppo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2023
8 points

Hey! So sorry to hear about your situation. I'm a father of an almost 1 year old myself. Stuttering since age 6. Could it be that your husband's low self esteem has grown since the arrival of the...

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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2023
3 points

If I can add to this. OP, I agree that I wouldn’t choose to stutter. I’d get rid of it in a heartbeat if I could. BUT, I can say it’s given me more empathy to people with speech impediments (after all...

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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2023
5 points

I still struggle with it more than I'm willing to accept, so at the moment I would say yes. I have had many good things come my way because of my stutter however and I do think it's made me a better p...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 17, 2023
12 points

I slightly agree. I hear my sister complain about her issues and I just think.....imagine if you were in my shoes.... But it's not that I'm not empathetic I just think people don't realise how fken h...

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Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception