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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2020
1 points

Well I don’t have enough money to do it myself and I’m only 16. And they already spend a lot on me for my OCD and singing lessons. So I really don’t want them to spend even more...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2020
1 points

Yeah and thanks to my stutter he cut to much hair so now my self esteeme is down at the bottom both on looks and my stutter....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2020
4 points

I do this all the time at work and people think I'm stupid. So infuriating when I know the answer but instead of stuttering/stammering in excitement of knowing the answer and providing the knowledge t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2020
1 points

But the fact I made myself stutter so much and the prayer was so basic because I was so worried is why I’m afraid they’ll view me that way. I feel like I’m extremely chill to be around. It’s just I’m ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2020
1 points

Thank you. I know the pastor understood because after words I said “I’m so sorry” and laughed a little, he said “it’s ok I put you on the spot” I said “that’s one thing I’m bad at” and he had be read ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 9, 2020
19 points

This was so embarrassing I wanna crawl in a hole and stay there forever

This was so embarrassing I wanna crawl in a hole and stay there forever I am in a freedom group and my church and the pastor had me pray at the beginning. This is about how the prayer went. “Dear God....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2020
16 points

I tried watching it but i couldnt finish it bc it felt horrible seeing myself in that light. Like, incredibly too real in a way that made me feel super self conscious. I felt better watching It (2017/...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2020
2 points

Sometimes I get stuck while trying to order something. I'm 21, so I get no nice treatment and even before, I've never experienced something like that. The general reaction I get is an awkward stare, b...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2020
2 points

I agree with the talking to a dog/kid and singing. I actually make rap and I don’t stutter lol. I’m just tired of the embarrassment of it...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Situational VariabilityShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2020
2 points

I’m fucking crying and I have five minutes to clock in to work. This video hit me way too hard....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2020
1 points

Speaking only for myself, stuttering has not really made me a better person. I am kinda over sensitive and take criticism very poorly. I have to actively rethink every criticism so that I can make the...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2020
1 points

For me, i hate to bring it up myself and I can get very defensive when asked. But secretly I wish I could talk to someone about it and be open about it and talk about it. Out of all the times someon...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2020
7 points

Yes actually very often. I dont think that i would really do it. Its like a daydream sometimes. This stuttering feels like a curse.....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterMar 6, 2020
9 points

No friends no self esteem

No friends no self esteem I hate my life at the moment. A bit on the past and probably in the future. I’m from finland and i stutter in almost every sentence. Finnish language is hard and a lot harder...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
postr/StutterMar 6, 2020
13 points

Have you ever been accused of faking your stutter/stammer?

Have you ever been accused of faking your stutter/stammer? It’s never happened to me personally, although there have been times when people have pointed out that I said a sentence fluently, but I’m no...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2020
2 points

It's a bit difficult to understand the situation, so pardon me if I'm asking a silly question, but - what makes you think she's wrong? Like, _are_ you in fact hanging on to the bad stuff out of trauma...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2020
2 points

I can relate so much. I had lots of friends in my teens, a totally different life. I like my life now aswell thanks to my kids and family. But I really dont have any friends, I seem to be to akward to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2020
2 points

Same. Ppl often tell me to not give a fuck about what others say etc rtc but it's not that easy. Insults gets to me...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2020
1 points

I'm sorry you had that experience. That's exactly the type of scenario my mind jumps to when I think of his future. But you're right, and yours and the other comments have really helped put my mind at...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2020
1 points

No offense taken. My post was definitely a little more dramatic than I intended. I am definitely projecting my childhood memories on his future. I'm working overnights this week, my mind tends to wand...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment