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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
2 points

Your stutter isn't getting in the way, ***you*** are getting in the way. The most successful people are those willing to put themselves in uncomfortable situations, and for us stutterers almost every ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
1 points

The normal process. Interviews. My stutter is at a point where I can get across what I'm saying in a reasonable amount of time on most days, so I just power through it. I'm also good at presentations...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
1 points

I'm seeing a lot of similar answers to mine in the comments so I hope there's something to go off of! 1. 'S' sounds are by far the most common for me, 'F', 'M' and 'N' sounds are also up there. I've ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
7 points

This 1000%. It is such a detriment when the characters whole personality is centered around a stutter. Agreed in that don’t have them act irrationally angry when someone corrects them or finishes a se...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
2 points

It's not really understood that well, but the most in depth explanation I've read has to do with overactive dopamine receptors. That or brain connections between the two hemispheres that are "wired" ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
2 points

Yes, they won’t reject you because of your stutter. This goes for presentations and job interviews. I stuttered in my job interview 1-2 weeks back. I experienced a few blocks (serious ones) and then r...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
3 points

Hi there! I am an SLP as well as a person who stutters with 10+ years working with children and adults who stutter. I have to agree with u/Jaeger__85. Recommending filler words and sounds are consi...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
1 points

I didn't realize I stuttered until high school when someone told me what it was. It was just how I've always talked, and no one had ever given me any flack about it as a kid. I found that my stutter o...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
1 points

I’m sorry you had to experience that, here’s some tips exercise regularly, meditating also has helped my speech immensely, also recently I’ve deleted all my social media so now I just give 0 fucks lik...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2021
1 points

Hey! Thanks honestly I think that’s what I need to do not let my stutter affect me or stop me from doing what I want to do. But yeah I get you there’s been many many times where I’ve been talking to s...

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commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2021
6 points

i feel you man, talking on the phone for appointments are the worst. especially stuttering on obvious questions like your name or address lol. good for you...

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commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2021
3 points

Yo man, i know what you mean like ur worried ur stutter will affect your job, it shouldn’t matter what your speech is like, if your good at the job your applying for then thats all that matters, i kn...

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commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2021
7 points

Your stutter won't stop you only you can. I've always had a stutter but have managed to control it by being overly confident, I'm now working in an Emergency Service role which involves a lot of speak...

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postr/StutterFeb 20, 2021
7 points

What kind of stuttering is this?

What kind of stuttering is this? Hi, Im 18 Ive been stuttering all my life but in a slightly different way than most of you. When Iam in the large groups or meet new people you basically cant hear me ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2021
6 points

Oh yeah, I know I probably have that problem too because I totally rely on saying “umm” or “mmm” “uhh” every time before I speak, however I personally feel that’s the only way I can somewhat get throu...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2021
9 points

The filler words is a good suggestion, but it can become problematic. Here's why: I started using filler words mainly the word "Uhm" with a slight stretch to stop myself from blocking but now every se...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2021
3 points

Same 100%, I find myself avoiding introducing myself to people so I come across as really standoffish and a lot of my friends now said they thought I was really rude when I first met them. In my first...

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commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
1 points

Avoiding reinforces fear of stuttering because you continue to do everything to avoid it instead of challenging that fear. Constantly avoiding keeps your stress levels high because you're always worri...

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commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2021
13 points

You probably don't want to hear this, but - avoiding the words you (think you're going to) stutter on is not a good method to not stutter by. It's also not guaranteed that the word you use instead is...

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commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2021
1 points

I’m happy you liked my suggestion :). There are some great options on Etsy where you can personalize a name necklace- so many different styles!!...

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