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commentr/StutterMay 18, 2020
6 points

Oh wow, accurate! It gets me every time. I would think a lot of us stutterers use humour to cover up our anxiety which makes it extra sad when we mess up our own jokes...my mind kinda goes ‘hahaaauugg...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Humor & Community ToneShame & EmbarrassmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2020
3 points

Yeah, I've thought about this question a lot. Who would I have been and what could I have achieved if I didn't stutter? For sure it has inhibited me in my social life and I think we all remember some...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencyShame & EmbarrassmentPropositionality & Weight
postr/StutterMay 17, 2020
28 points

Sharing some motivation Love🐦

Sharing some motivation Love🐦 When I had the quiz score of 11 👇⁣ ⁣ Everytime in class when the teacher used ask you to call out your quiz answer no matter what the quiz was out of I always got 11. L...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2020
1 points

Even people who don’t stutter go through situations like this and feel embarrassed/shamed for a misuse of words. Don’t give your stutter that much power....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMay 14, 2020
2 points

Hey I need a funny sentence when introducing my stuter

Hey I need a funny sentence when introducing my stuter I wont stop stuttering and the embaracment wont vanish, I want to laugh at myslef to ease the tention I'm creating....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHumor & Community ToneShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2020
2 points

Man I completely feel you. It makes total sense why you stuttered severely though. How much value you give their judgements of you, determine how much you will stutter. I've had it too. Met up with ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterMay 13, 2020
5 points

My story and asking for advice and tips please

My story and asking for advice and tips please Im 16, male, and for as long as i can remember i have been stuttering. In elementary school i would go go a speech therapist but then they said im fine a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2020
11 points

I once dated a guy for 6 months before he saw me stutter. It is exhausting and so isolating to hide such a big part of myself. At that point in my life I was more worried about hiding this shameful ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2020
1 points

Exactly. Sometimes it makes me sick at how low I thought of myself. So glad I had the strength to leave....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2020
4 points

I have a hard time ordering food myself sometimes ( one time a taco bell employee thought I was having a stroke LOL) but I try and if my sister is there with me and I’m having a bad day she sometimes ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2020
2 points

Thanks for thiss!! In my whole life I never got an advice like you have given now.. All I got to speak was with people who doesn't stutter and they don't get the feeling and clearly they dont understa...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2020
3 points

Dude this one time I went to McDonald’s and I could only say that I wanted a burger. Girl was confused and asked me..... “....what.....kind...... of burger?” I literally sank in my drivers seat and dr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2020
1 points

That fucking kills me. My wife is usually with me when we're out running errands. We'll be bullshitting at the counter together but as soon as I have to speak to someone I don't know my stutter feels ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2020
2 points

I experience this quite often. Growing up, I was pretty extroverted, energetic, and wild. But once I noticed that I was starting to get bullied/made fun of for my stuttering problem, I became very sel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2020
3 points

Yeah i understand i am also dealing with same i am 23(m) and facing exact same problems and going through the same, Stuttering is so much holding back,i have so much to share, so much to talk, so much...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
postr/StutterMay 3, 2020
18 points

Another repressed memory I just remembered from middle school.

Another repressed memory I just remembered from middle school. This shit is funny. Back in geography class, in 6th grade, the teacher made us read aloud from the textbook. When it was my turn, one of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2020
4 points

I’ve gone to my same school for 12 years. The kids don’t actually care anymore. I judge myself not them....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2020
1 points

On a literal daily basis. In my teens I gave up, I don’t talk unless it’s absolutly necessary or I’m with somebody I’m comfortable with....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2020
2 points

Not at all. I tend to be a pretty funny guy. My stutter ruins about 75% of the jokes I want to say. I'm pretty knowledgeable on my trigger sounds so I run through the joke in my head, see if there are...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2020
2 points

I had an intense dysarthia and stutter - I couldn't form words properly at all, and at times was essentially not able to be understood except by my friends. I worked really hard in speech therapy, and...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Situational VariabilityAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more