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commentr/StutterAug 2, 2016
1 points

Hello. I also have a huge problem talking on a phone. I have taken to changing my voice kind of while speaking on the phone. It probably sounds ridiculous but it works for me. Im from long island and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2016
2 points

I have a different experience with weed. I used to smoke quite a bit but it never made much difference to my stutter. I stopped a while back because it started giving me anxiety and my speech suffered...

Meds & SubstancesIdentity & Disability
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Harmful Med OutcomesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2016
1 points

Well acting "as if" makes me fluent or at least more fluent even when I'm sober. Acting as if I was relaxed instead of nervous, confident instead of insecure. Just bringing out that part of me that n...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJul 30, 2016
2 points

Do you visualize words before speaking them?

Do you visualize words before speaking them? I've realized that I visualize words in my mind before speaking. Especially difficult words that I block on. This does not occur when I am fluent. I feel l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
5 points

Chances are, they never will. Depending on who they are, you should just say something along the lines of "I'm glad your alright now, I'm still hanging in there" and move on with your life. They won...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
17 points

Being held back. I love chatting via text because I can cleanly convey my thoughts, humour and whatever it is I want to say. In person, I avoid many of the chances for conversation or input during a c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
18 points

First impressions. I loathe that moment when my classmates or a girl hear me speak for the first time and take me for a fool due to my manner of speaking. For most people, their manner of speaking bet...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
2 points

Yeah, I try to battle through if I can, but some days restructuring a sentence is the only way (otherwise I know I'd just get stuck on the dreaded word forever!) It often feels like a coin toss of wha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
10 points

That's a good one. I hate that too. I used to get that a lot in middle school. I decided not to talk at all since I had such a bad stutter, not so much now since I talk freely....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
1 points

Sometimes when I'm feeling more courageous I'll try and battle through haha. Otherwise I'd avoid I guess , which I don't like to do. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
16 points

The "Why are you so silent all the time?" for me is frustrating . Or at least it was before , now I just disclose that I have a stutter but before I was really insecure about my stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
1 points

Thanks for sharing ;) Do you find you try to avoid these words or battle through? I know I'll navigate around a whole sentence to avoid my 'feared' words sometimes, but other times they're completely ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2016
1 points

How do you think speech occurs? Are you conciously focused on trying to move your mouth and tounge when you talk to articulate more? Because I have found out like many others that speech is a natural...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJul 6, 2016
7 points

Contrary to popular belief, first impressions don't mean that much.

Contrary to popular belief, first impressions don't mean that much. I'm sure a lot of us have heard "You have to make a good first impression!" So when you meet new people you try really hard not to ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2016
2 points

Hey! I'm from the UK (pending) too! Honestly the best thing I've found is to just let go of your pride. You're gonna stammer either way. Get angry, get red in the face. For me, it flows once I've laug...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingRoles & Performance+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2016
1 points

Hey man, I feel you a lot. In no way am I trying to minimize what you're going through because I mirror a lot the sentiments you expressed- especially feeling like a shadow of my true self. Communicat...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2016
1 points

I'd rather sound like a human with emotions and personality stuttering than a robot because im afraid to stutter. People don't want to stutter because it's weird but don't mind robot talking because i...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2016
2 points

The weird thing is I'm generally OK with telling people I have a stutter, I'm just terrified or ashamed or some shit of actually stuttering in front of people. Most the time when I tell people they in...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2016
1 points

Is that because you don't want people to know you stutter?...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2016
7 points

Yup, very frustrating indeed. I hate that I have to suppress my personality and myself as a person. Feels like some shitty version of my life not being able to express myself and put myself out there ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking