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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2017
7 points

Being honest about it helps (with yourself and with others). It really reduces the pressure to be fluent. I stutter and I'm a writer and a manager. I'm doing pretty well for myself. I think being unab...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2017
1 points

Acceptance is key to finding peace and comfort. Otherwise you will stress about it which brings on anxiety and thus, more stuttering. The degree of "acceptance" varies to person to person. I know I ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2017
3 points

For me, what started the process was realizing my stutter didn't actually, physically, hurt me. It was intensely embarrassing, but it wasn't killing me. So I figured I could deal with the embarrassmen...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2017
1 points

Stuttering is an identity that we all share, and how you identify with it varies. When I was 15, I exhibited secondary behavior like tapping myself to get through a block, now I'm 25 and I sort of jus...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. MaskingOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2017
1 points

Yup, exactly. I say this as a female afflicted with "wounded duck thing." Tho, I do not actually see people who stutter as wounded ducks, just to be clear. But, yeah, the vulnerability and being tr...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2017
4 points

That is certainly a valid concern and you're right; you don't want to use it as an excuse. I talked about it by discussing how it was hard to deal with growing up but that as I got older, I pursued op...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAuthenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2017
6 points

I have what I would call a mild stutter but when I applied to medical school, it was obviously something that weighed heavily on my mind. I chose to write about my stutter in my personal statement (no...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2017
10 points

I don't agree; acknowledging that you stutter is better that trying to pretend it's not there. I don't mean making a big deal out of it, but saying nothing is almost always worse in a situation like ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2017
2 points

A part of being an actor, for instance, is confidence when speaking and putting on a role. Both of those things tend to decrease one's stutter....

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Roles & PerformanceAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2017
1 points

The thing that's helped me overcome my stutter is advice that's dressed up differently than "overcoming stuttering". Whenever I would research "overcoming stuttering" years ago (when I had a severe st...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Research & ResourcesMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2017
5 points

Indeed. I have contacts at various places which have a large membership. When I call them, they don't even have to ask my name and instantly know it's me. I am fully open about my stutter and talk li...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2017
3 points

Yeah, it took me a good 3 years in college before I had the confidence to speak up in class. I have really found the benefits in practicing mindfulness and really focusing on my own mind rather than t...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2017
1 points

I didn't stutter whIle singing. Concentrating more on breathing , hitting the note and remembering the words. I stuttered less with acting. Concentrating on lines, emotion, using different accents or ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityRoles & PerformanceAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2017
1 points

Any time I have brought it up with him, it's been from a point of view that his stuttering isn't holding him back, but it's rather more of the nervousness that comes with it that is. I'm sure gettin...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJan 30, 2017
11 points

The "cure rejecting/Novelty trick hating" attitude of this subreddit has hurt me alot mentally and it should change.

The "cure rejecting/Novelty trick hating" attitude of this subreddit has hurt me alot mentally and it should change. I was always hopeful of at least knowing I can one day reduce it to a point where i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2017
1 points

Yeah, interesting. You're a covert stutterer. All of the success, high-bar setting you're talking about, is dependent, or you feel it's dependent, on you hiding your stutter. I don't think it's h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityMeds & Substances
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingHelpful Med Outcomes+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2017
1 points

Glad you've found the video to be helpful! I see myself as different than a trainer. I'm passionate about sharing this information because I know all the wonderful things it can do for others. You men...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2017
7 points

I wish I had realized earlier on that most people don't care at all if you stutter, and those who do probably aren't folks you want to be around. Once I was more upfront and comfortable about it, and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2017
1 points

In short: you completion with your problem and not overcome it. This is one way, but for me I'm trying to get overcome my stutter and not completion with it. Like you said that if you have body with ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2017
4 points

Step #1: Throw any expectations out of the window. 'Will I be fluent or not?' 'Will I ever be a social person?' 'Will I ever do this or that?'. Forget all of that. Your only goal now it's to become th...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftMindfulness & BreathingAuthenticity vs. Masking