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commentr/StutterMay 27, 2024
8 points

If you say it to her in a clear and confident way I think it would be fine. You can mention a previous job/experience where it got easier with time (can make one up if not). I feel like it would help ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2024
10 points

I was kept from 2 careers, but found a path forward (municipal police and military) I sought speech therapy and came at peace with my much better level of stuttering. It’s more about not being afr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Preparation & RehearsalHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
2 points

I would be totally open to practicing with you everyday for a week if that would help. I actually think it would really help to practice with a complete stranger rather than just your family. If you g...

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commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
3 points

Thanks, this actually helped. I'll practice more and try to make a better 1st impression like emailing them beforehand or dressing up nice....

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Preparation & RehearsalHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
1 points

Like /u/skeptic135 said, practice is key. The more you can the more you'll relax. Ask your friends/teachers for help. If you need more people DM me, I'll be happy to help. Also, try to establish a bi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2024
5 points

Before you speak do a small exhale of breath, this will help you relax. Do practice interviews with loved ones and try to practice the exhale and speak more even paced. Maybe tap your foot to each ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Mindfulness & BreathingPreparation & RehearsalEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2024
1 points

It’s the worst when a cop pulls you over. Most are chill and might just ask if I had a speech impediment but some aren’t. I’ve had to get out of my car and let them search me and the car because of “s...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2024
9 points

I agree. My father was a pretty much a Cornell educated useless POS that couldn’t be bothered to pay child support for his three kids. Once, when he was asking me a question and didn’t like answer I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal+3 more
postr/StutterMay 13, 2024
0 points

“Modeling”

“Modeling” Anyone ever see Michael Williams’ Pro 90D program? Essentially, his theory is you “model” aka transform into a speaker you look up to. For me, it’s him, Michael Williams himself, and, Donal...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalRoles & PerformancePublic Speaking
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2024
1 points

Mine was Air Force, and also a while ago, but I just remember practicing saying my name and the airman's creed over and over again. That and stuff like "YES SIR/MAAM", "NO SIR/MAAM", and other basic a...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & RehearsalHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2024
6 points

I took an afternoon shift on college radio. Learned the virtue of preparing what I was going to say BEFORE I opened the mic, and I REALLY LISTENED to myself when I was talking....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & RehearsalOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2024
3 points

I usually use a synonym when I know I have a block coming. When I'm in a presentation? I talk a bit slower, but if i get to a block, I take a second and breathe. There are plenty of methods to distrac...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2024
2 points

What helped me was to just practice. Start speaking in response to imagined questions when you're alone, you'll look insane but it'll help. It's the only way I got through boot camp....

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Preparation & RehearsalFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2024
2 points

I like the book self therapy for the stutterer by malcolm fraiser. It is free to download and read. Are there teaching positions available at your current school? I have always found it hard to get i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMay 7, 2024
12 points

Are speech blocks worse than stuttering?

Are speech blocks worse than stuttering? 17M, my dad has a stutter, and i have frequent speech blocks and occasional stutters. My speech blocks are induced by anxiety most of the times, like when s...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2024
2 points

It was really chill for the cashier position! It was a bunch of high schoolers and a few adults so it was really laid back (I’m a college sophomore). But I assume for internship and corporate job grou...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
School & Academic LifeEmployment & CareerPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2024
2 points

I joined the air force last year and I dreaded saying reporting statements. I usually tried to stay quiet or say reporting statements when a lot of trainees weren’t around. Some trainees in my flight ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic LifePreparation & Rehearsal
postr/StutterApr 29, 2024
18 points

Best Man Speech Complete!

Best Man Speech Complete! I recently what tasked with being best man in my friends wedding. This meant having to do the dreaded best man speech which I thought I wouldn’t ever have to do as someone wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringPreparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 28, 2024
1 points

Is it a date, or not a date?

Is it a date, or not a date? Back ground info, me and this girl met my senior year of high school, her junior year. Nothing happened we always had lunch together with a group of friends and I always f...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomancePreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2024
1 points

I’m a scientist. Mines is not as severe anymore, but what helps me is practicing before interviews. I try to practice what I plan on speaking about as well as mindfulness to calm my anxiety (which mak...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalMindfulness & BreathingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more