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commentr/StutterSep 3, 2019
11 points

Communication skills is a requirement in every job . Officially they will not say it is because of your stuttering . It took me around 30plus interviews to get a job . With every interview you will ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2019
25 points

Well no one actually says that they're rejecting you coz of it. But u do get denied alot. In this summers, i applied to a lot of internships(even unpaid at the end coz i was desperate), got called on ...

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Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2019
1 points

i have the same issues as yours and i know exactly how you feel,when i get asked about my name in front of the class i stutter so badly that i cant even pronounce a single letter of my name and i’m be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2019
2 points

I am diagnosed with Atypical autism and mild ADD i am always chill and probably the nicest guy in my area but when i stutter or do something stupid like dropping glass by accident i always get angry a...

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Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2019
2 points

For a while i kept a diary , counted my stutters through out the day and what words and practiced. It helped. The worst part about stuttering is the loss of control and that helped me gain control eve...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterSep 1, 2019
5 points

I need advice

I need advice I started stuttering when i was 12 nothing major back then until recently i am now 17 and i can't even speak sometimes it's fucking annoying it's driving me insane when i can't get the w...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2019
2 points

That’s exactly what I’m talking about. It’s also frustrating sometimes when, I think about that I can’t even THINK without somethings in my way. But it‘s sure relieving that there is someone in the sa...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Helplessness & AgencyValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2019
1 points

I’ve had a very nagging voice in my head tell me that I can’t advance in life with a stutter. My biggest dark cloud over my head tells me that I’m not suited to be a father, or I’m not qualified for a...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2019
1 points

i've tried all sorts of openings, etc. I usually have to change it up every time, for instance, (i work at a tire shop and the time I interact with customers is when we do air checks on their tires) i...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterAug 19, 2019
11 points

Stammering affects the way other perceive me.

Stammering affects the way other perceive me. Hello, I am 22 year old male with a stammer. I have been doing a lot of thinking today about how much my stammer has affected the way I come across to to ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2019
3 points

Ik that feel. Im the person you're referring to with stutter worse than yourself. I literally stutter on every word. Sometimes it takes more than 20 25 sec b4 i can get that word out. And you know, ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencySuicidal Ideation & High Distress
postr/StutterAug 18, 2019
26 points

My stutter ruins me

My stutter ruins me I have stuttered ever since I was 3 years old. I am 20 now and am currently an accounting major and want to become a CFO one day. My stutter is so severe so its hard for me to find...

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postr/StutterAug 15, 2019
7 points

I'm really worried about my future.

I'm really worried about my future. First time posting here. So I've had very severe stammering since childhood which has gotten worse over the years and still headed in the same direction. It runs i...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2019
1 points

You’re going to stay alive to spite all of those reasons. You need to choose a life where you hands down refuse to let this be the thing that holds you back. It will be work every day, I know. You are...

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Hope & MotivationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2019
4 points

Don’t kill yourself! I’m 22 and I feel the same way. I’ve been stuttering since I was 8 and it does suck when I have to do presentations or introduce myself, which is why I have trouble making friends...

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Suicidal Ideation & High DistressAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2019
9 points

Your stutter is such a small part of you. I felt the same way you do at 23, but it will change as long as you don’t give up. I used my stutter as an excuse to not do things because I was scared, loo...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2019
2 points

Most of the people here understand what it's like and what it feels like to go through what you're going through, all I can say is that life can and will get better but it takes a lot of time and work...

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Hope & MotivationHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2019
1 points

PLEASE : Don’t tell me , HI Saif you should to have a relaxation vacation and you should to think about your family , the life is great I have no friends, no family, no girlfriend friend , I have onl...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2019
2 points

First days are always the worst. Truly get you man!!. There was once a time when I couldn't get my name out and the teacher just asked me to sit down in class. After that year I normally started bunk...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
postr/StutterAug 6, 2019
0 points

I understand the sentiment, I really do. But I wish this sub wasn't so quick to give false hope to people

I understand the sentiment, I really do. But I wish this sub wasn't so quick to give false hope to people Some of us are doomed for failure. Our speech has crippled our lives to the point where we can...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency