i've tried all sorts of openings, etc. I usually have to change it up every time, for instance, (i work at a tire shop and the time I interact with customers is when we do air checks on their tires) i'll start off one by asking "need some air?" or another by "how's it going", etc ​ it's just so exhausting and overwhelming all the time. i wish there was some sort of concrete remedy. \\ ​ Thanks for your advice, it means a lot.