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commentr/StutterAug 6, 2024
9 points

I feel your pain! Growing up was rough for me. Kids were definitely cruel but a lot weren’t. Still to this day I have hard time making eye contact while speaking unless it’s a woman due to judgement. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2024
50 points

It's still largely misunderstood, and it's been the butt of jokes in the media for way too long, too. I'm in retail management and I have to deal with angry customers at times. I'm often pretty good w...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2024
3 points

I think it's different for each person. For me, I stutter less around strangers. Because I tell myself that strangers are not aware of the fact that I stutter. so, I don't have to worry about them exp...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterAug 6, 2024
81 points

Why is stuttering so mocked?

Why is stuttering so mocked? No but seriously, it’s so mocked most people makes it a normal thing. Shown in so many TV shows, and in fact how it’s usually portrayed. Like they are dumb, nervous, or as...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/stutteringAug 6, 2024
1 points

Another story, one day I've got a match with a girl. We started texting, sending pictures ..etc I liked her, she liked me everything was okay. When finally she called me to talk at night, I stuttered ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2024
2 points

I’ve heard a lot of people say they have luck with “my name is __”. I think I freak myself out too much no matter what. I go into a situation KNOWING I will stutter when I say my name. It’s rough....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2024
3 points

I feel you 100%, I overthink it way too much too. I also have a mild stutter and I have moments of fluency and moments of I can't speak at all (usually linked with anxiety). To add to focusing on brea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2024
2 points

This is the evil voice in your head telling you that, which self-reinforces and just compounds this distorted self image. Believe me, I've been there too. But what I learned is that anyone who wou...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2024
8 points

Very very common to block on your name, even when you are fluent most other times. Interested in learning sime tangible and academically sound habits that will decrease this extremely challenging ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2024
2 points

Yes I do feel like that sometimes, I have a relatively mild stutter and even though no one has ever made fun of me for it I still get anxious when I wanna ask a question because for me the reason I st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2024
3 points

When I block I look horrible... I squeeze with my whole face. Im a good looking guy but my blocks ruin my chances of ever finding a new gf or even friends....

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2024
1 points

Im 32 and have been w a decent amount of girls but stuttering makes it SO much more difficult. You look like an idiot and it makes you look less confident. Ive abused pills and alcohol to try and calm...

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Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
2 points

yea good one. Also people can have doubts for example, when confessing shameful things (when they are praying).. additionally, some people stutter more when they feel excited. If OP is excited to talk...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
1 points

If you have hard silent blocks with eye contact aversion, try practicing the techniques that directly address the issue - making eye contact in a mirror while doing voluntary repetitions. It works qu...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
1 points

Dating experience? what is that as stuttering person who cant say a word because he is anxieted what will person think...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
1 points

Lovely story (seriously). I’m really not trying to be pessimistic, but I feel like there’s a significant difference between mild stutter and a stutter where you have a 15 second block 3 times a senten...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterAug 5, 2024
7 points

Why do some people STUTTER more with strangers, and others STUTTER more with family and friends? NEW research study: "Characteristics of attentional focus of movement among adults who stutter" (2024)

Why do some people STUTTER more with strangers, and others STUTTER more with family and friends? NEW research study: "Characteristics of attentional focus of movement among adults who stutter" (2024) ...

Community & SupportAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Research & ResourcesOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
5 points

I have a severe stutter and had a 4 year relationship. Unfortunately we broke up because of my incompetence(which is having stutter and have social anxiety) and was even disappointed when I always got...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
3 points

It sounds like you’re maybe having “blocks” , which could be from social anxiety? If so I recently read an old thread that could give you some advice & have you reached out to the National Stutter As...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
1 points

That’s sad and very relatable. I too work in big4 and sadly it’s a client facing role. Everyday is filled with anxiety. Sometimes I stutter so bad that I have to sleep in order to calm my mind(it’s WF...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career