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commentr/StutterAug 15, 2021
2 points

There are always gonna be those who are jerks about it but you’d be surprised how many people are understanding of it. Big thing is to be upfront about it, you may have a stutter but your stutter doe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2021
3 points

It Ain’t no thing. Having a friend you’re comfortable talking to helps also. I don’t even remember when I stopped stuttering, one day I just noticed it. I still have really bad eye contact when I t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2021
3 points

It's been a slow process. I started being self-conscious about it around the age of 12 - 13, when my teacher made me recite poems of famous Italian authors in front of my classmates (I'm Italian). Nee...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2021
1 points

Yeah, it wasn't only my stutter blocking me. Also my terrible eyesight without glasses. That's life...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
postr/StutterAug 10, 2021
30 points

Does your personality suffer when you're in a stuttering state?

Does your personality suffer when you're in a stuttering state? I used to honestly think that it wasnt possible to be happy when I stuttered.. Everytime I used to stutter it would absolutely deflate...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
3 points

The toughest thing a stutterer can do is pretend they are perfect speakers. Sometimes we fail and get laughed at and that is what we have to deal with. Be positive. We can talk (sometimes) we can se...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
2 points

I consider it mild because sometimes I'm fluent, or I manage to hide it very well by saying certain words instead of others. But other times it's harder and people can tell. I don't really repeat syll...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
3 points

This was the worst part of my high school years. I actually skipped class on the first day of senior year to avoid having to introduce myself. Looking back now I should've gone and just dealt with it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
5 points

Sometimes I do really well and sometimes I get super massive blocks. I’ve been told many times they could not hire me because I lacked social fluency and skills. When I didn’t stutter, or at least tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
1 points

Wow I was same until I just stopped speaking to my family all together because “stuttering” was always the topic. So no speaking meant no stuttering. If my dad asked me a question I’d say “sorry I’m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
1 points

I faked having to cold call people at a job. I spoke into the phone but never dialed the numbers...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
1 points

I think at around age 17 I just completely stopped responding to people who acknowledged my stutter. If my dad asked me a question I’d just say “sorry I’m stuck on a word” he’d say “which one” and I’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
1 points

All of them. I've literally walked into a business intending to buy something, chickened out, went home to buy it online and then wait days for said item. Or rather than walk up to order food, do it v...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2021
3 points

I have a stutter and tend to avoid words that I struggle with. I try to conceal it. It’s also evolved over time as I’ve tried to deal with it. I was never in speech therapy so I was on my own. I also ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSituational Variability+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2021
2 points

I kind of agree with both of you here. A stutter is hard to conceal, but the older we get the better (how many of us) get better at hiding it or simply not talking unless we have to....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2021
1 points

I was on board with this post until I saw the comments about people with minor stutters or kids. But what really convinced me were the people saying it's because they hide it it made me think how I am...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2021
3 points

Yes I am covert myself. I struggled my way through middle school, high school, and now college, avoiding speaking at all costs. When I do speak I hardly stutter so no one thinks I do. This is probably...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2021
1 points

I personally am a covert stutterer so I don't really stutter I'm just good at hiding it (until ofcourse it eventually pokes its head out) so I have never really had a bad experience at work other then...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2021
11 points

I've met a decent amount of them actually. 1 percent may be a tad high but if you listen to people talk closely you can tell they have a stutter even if they don't outright stutter. For example, prete...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2021
25 points

The numbers tend to be closer to about 0.7% in more recent studies, but I think the issue here is that you’re looking for people who sound a certain way. It’s easy to see people who are amputees, from...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationHiding & Concealment