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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2018
2 points

Yea i have the same thing when im with friends or at work i just speak a normal amount but when im with people that i dont know im really quite but after a while i begin to talk more. Maybe because wh...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2018
3 points

I mean I wonder that it as well, but like when I’m with people I know, or at work, I’m usually loud and outgoing. I notice it more when I’m around people I don’t know. Like for instance when I was in ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2018
5 points

With me its wierd because im also a kind of a quite type but i dont know if it is because i stutter or it is just who i am. Do you wonder that to?...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJan 1, 2018
9 points

Does your stutter make you quiet?

Does your stutter make you quiet? This is something that intrigues me because while I wouldn’t necessarily say that my stutter causes me to be the quiet type, it is something I would say that does aff...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 30, 2017
2 points

Yeah, my husband didn't even BELIEVE me at first when we finally had a conversation about my stuttering. He genuinely hadn't noticed, even though I was struggling so hard to get a particular word out ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2017
2 points

I think you should picture yourself in a relationship and ask yourself how much you'd confide in your significant other. Do they need to understand your situation entirely, or is it enough to be polit...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2017
2 points

I have a good handful of close friends (and many acquaintances) but I only discuss personal matters with them through text. I could hold longer conversations that way, and I do trust my friends/feel c...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Friendships & BelongingHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2017
3 points

Thank you for sharing this! I really liked how you described that it wasn't your speech that limited you, but that it was your feelings about your speech. This is definitely something I struggle with ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2017
1 points

Yes, this. Things aren't as poetic and dramatic in reality as what we imagine. Humility tends to go a long way too whether we want it to or not. In classroom settings people would assume I'm smart bec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2017
3 points

You're not going to be able to hide your stutter forever. Just go up there and do your best....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2017
5 points

welcome! i hear ya, i've been there. honestly, what has helped me the most over the years is accepting that i have a stutter and appreciating/loving myself and not being bothered by it. easier said ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2017
2 points

That lines up with my experience of the one girl I know in real life who stutters. I'll talk to her for five minutes and then wonder how I got to know her and I'll be like oh right she stutters. She's...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2017
3 points

Female stutterer here. Personally, I think there may be more women stutterers than people realize, but that women are better at 'covert' stuttering, and therefore don't necessarily go to speech therap...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterDec 7, 2017
21 points

How I overcame stuttering in a week

How I overcame stuttering in a week Little back story, I've had a stutter since 4 and had therapists up until mid 20's, I've attended the Mcquire programme and the starfish programme here in the UK. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2017
4 points

Stuttering sure is my number one thing. But I have a very severe one, which makes it hard to show my real personality and wit....

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2017
4 points

I met my bf on tinder, I feel like it's how a lot of people meet these days so I'm not ashamed to say it lol! I felt more comfortable messaging first because then I could get my personality across an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
postr/StutterDec 4, 2017
13 points

Outing myself

Outing myself I’ve been a PWS since I was around 3 years old. I’m now 26 and, while my stutter is very mild, it still deeply affects me emotionally and limits the things I allow myself to do. I’m not ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2017
2 points

The older I got, the less I needed to do that or cared. It's only an elephant if you make it one. Everyone has problems and no one cares. They already know you stutter. You already know they have a bi...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2017
1 points

I didn't like discussing it for the longest time but I've worked through it. Now I make it clear that I'm open to questions about it and that I'm ok with repeating myself when necessary. Personally ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 28, 2017
2 points

Yes! I agree! If you’re comfortable with it, people will not care and it won’t bug them :) My stutter is not the only thing people see in me......

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking