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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2020
2 points

Your post hits close to home- this week I had to do a small presentation for a team meeting. I had prepared and practiced well but when the time came for me to speak, I froze up and I stuttered on eve...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterDec 18, 2020
57 points

School Presentation

School Presentation I just finished doing my music history slideshow about sly and the family stone. I’ve had a stutter for as long as I can remember (I’m 16) and I stutter through the whole thing but...

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commentr/StutterDec 17, 2020
9 points

Thank you. I somehow feel ashamed knowing that there are stutterers like me out there who are constantly battling and making it through the day while I’m just here crying in the corner of my room and ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2020
5 points

I can relate so much with knowing what to say but choosing to pretend that you don’t have any idea just to escape from stuttering. I’ve had several occasions when in a meeting that I just can’t expres...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterDec 17, 2020
17 points

genuinely nervous

genuinely nervous ***Stuttering is not the problem, the fear of it is ! That consumes oneself like anything. The long, hard and awkward gazes of people unknown. The long silences between two words. T...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2020
3 points

I have the same huge problem with jokes. I recently just got an acute onset stutter and before I would crack jokes all the time. Now I feel like my stuttering ruins it....

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postr/StutterDec 16, 2020
116 points

Vent

Vent Stuttering sucks. When you want to tell a joke, you stutter at the punchline. You want to take a part in conversation: you end up staying silent. You have an idea to share in class: the person si...

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postr/StutterDec 16, 2020
29 points

Stuttering sucks

Stuttering sucks Im from Greece and you all know that the greek language is kinda hard to learn. Well I have been stuttering for the last 4 years and I cant speak because of that. I was doing online ...

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postr/StutterDec 15, 2020
20 points

:(

:( last wednesday i had an oral test and nearly had a panic attack,, and as i was really stressed, it was even more hard to talk like i was stuttering so much, nearly on every words honestly, i dont t...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterDec 15, 2020
16 points

Do you know what’s the worst part about stuttering mid conversation?

Do you know what’s the worst part about stuttering mid conversation? People that keep looking at you faking it as if they didn’t notice the stutter and act as if nothing happened, and end conversation...

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postr/StutterDec 15, 2020
20 points

I tried to hide it my whole life, I'm still trying.

I tried to hide it my whole life, I'm still trying. Ever since I was a little kid, stuttering was and still is my number 1 issue, I am not sure whether it's congenital, but what I'm sure of, I'll be m...

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postr/StutterDec 13, 2020
53 points

stuttering sucks so much

stuttering sucks so much I stutter my whole life, and I still cant get used to it. I hate how I dont even "stutter" but I do that thing which sounds like "o-o-oo-u" and cant breath anymore, people are...

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commentr/StutterDec 13, 2020
2 points

Yeah, I got that a couple times in highschool. I've tried to explain it twice and I came off as a weirdo....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2020
8 points

When stuttering was a big issue in my life, I think the worst part was feeling like I was making my listener(s) uncomfortable or making them feel embarrassed...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2020
7 points

no I have no problem when someone finishes my sentence or something else, but only when they look at me with a painful look, it makes me feel a little bad...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2020
6 points

When people think I'm "slow" or mentally challenged (while I have a master's degree, speak two foreign languages an also have an above-average IQ)....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterDec 12, 2020
7 points

I just kind of had an emotional breakdown at a public setting today.

I just kind of had an emotional breakdown at a public setting today. So I got made fun of my stutter today. After many many years. In a public setting which is my worst nightmare. And these aren't eve...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2020
3 points

I think that's very normal, I do and feel exactly the same. However I would love to not feel ashamed about it because unfortunately we are our biggest bullies. I admire other people being straight to...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2020
2 points

If I ever smile or laugh at my stutter it's in response to someone doing so first. I think I do it to make them feel at ease, removes tension from the room, but it makes me feel embarrassed and ashame...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2020
2 points

1. Yes 2. Years of various types 3. No 4. The iceberg idea of surface and hidden emotions (I encountered this as an adult) 5. Begin to delve into the emotional aspects of speech dysfluency 6. Emotiona...

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