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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2018
3 points

You are absolutely correct about that! Many women won't like that type of spontaneous interaction, and one must have the tact to recognize the signs and cut the conversation short if it's not a mutual...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2018
2 points

My only comment is that many women don’t like to be approached on the street. I think the sentiment behind it was cool, but if people were rude, I’d venture that it had nothing to do with stuttering...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJan 13, 2018
14 points

My story. Hard road to hapinness with stuttering

My story. Hard road to hapinness with stuttering Hi everyone! I am 23 years old. I want to share with you the story of my fight against stuttering. I have been stuttering since I was a little girl. T...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2018
3 points

When people perform they often don't stutter. This isn't 'overcoming' stuttering, it's a strategy to mitigate it. Overcoming stuttering is about becoming comfortable and confident with your speech. U...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingFluency Techniques
postr/StutterJan 10, 2018
5 points

Not stuttering in front of my little brother?

Not stuttering in front of my little brother? So I’m a 15 year old stutterer, and I have tried many types of therapy. I recently found that when I am either alone, whether it be speaking to myself or...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Experiential AssociationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2018
2 points

hey dude, i know it's hard, trust me, i'm going through it now with my current job! what has helped me is just ... giving in, hah, if that makes sense. like i just say "okay, i stutter, so what?" mos...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingMindset shiftHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2018
3 points

i actually started re-reading this book recently. i think it's worth the read. i mean, first, it's free, and second, i don't really believe there is one singular therapy out there that unequivocally w...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Authenticity vs. MaskingAdvice OfferedIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJan 9, 2018
31 points

I've been there too.

I've been there too. If you've ever felt that awful, gut-wrenching anxiety before a social event...I've been there too. If you've cancelled fun plans because you didn't want to deal with the embarras...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentValidation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2018
1 points

I know exactly how you feel. I've had issues in the past with attending classes during name introductions, and even though teachers suggested that they inform the class that I stuttered beforehand, or...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2018
1 points

What if I'll get similar sentiments? What if people will laugh at me? What if they won't even want to go through with the interview. I just don't want to be treated differently or be given the job bc ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2018
1 points

Yes, there is an expectation to speak properly, but not fluently. I have done some interviews for internships. For my last internship my employer had to choose between me and 9 other candidates. We al...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2018
1 points

Yes I read that so right now, I don't care if I speak fluently or not but there's an expectation to be fluent. Like how about in job or interviews? ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2018
7 points

I feel the same, it makes me super uncomfortable. I think it’s because I get that rare glimpse of what others see when I stutter. It’s at the core of why we stutter I suppose, embarrassment and a desi...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJan 3, 2018
5 points

My story

My story Hello Reddit, If I decide to write this post here today it's obviously because I stutter and I need someone to lend an ear, here's my story and what bothers me : I've always stuttered, I don...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2018
1 points

> I want to be outgoing -> easier to make more friends. Can't bc of my speech. Not accurate. Plenty of stutterers are outgoing and have a lot of friends, in many different cultures. You need to...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2018
2 points

Explain to your boss that you're less likely to be fluent with that modified greeting. If you don't start the conversation about your stutter someone else will, and it might not actually include you....

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2018
1 points

In my job function, I can't stay quiet. So no, I wouldn't say that my stutter makes me quiet. It simply fails to be able to have that effect. I don't stay quiet in social situations either....

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2018
3 points

I'm not doubting your opinion, but lets say its neurological, wouldn't I also have trouble when speaking to myself out loud? I'm 100% fluent when no one is listening, but once I know that someone will...

Speech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Loss of ControlAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2018
1 points

Talking to yourself and to others are completely different for me, the former being 100% fluent. Talking to family I am more excited and maybe make less of an effort than when I am with a stranger. ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightCycles & RandomnessAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2018
2 points

Yeah I am the same way to when it comes to speaking with strangers after a while. I wasn’t necessarily ashamed of it during elementary school, but one I got to around 7th/8th grade, I just went about ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking