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postr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
30 points

Anybody else feel worthless and lost?

Anybody else feel worthless and lost? Hello all i’ve hit a point in my life where Im starting to feel a little hopeless of a lot of things and it all seems to link to having a stutter. I know it shou...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 14, 2024
14 points

21M, this is my story living with a stutter

21M, this is my story living with a stutter I started stuttering at age 5, I don’t even remember stuttering back then. The only reason I know I did, is because my mom told me I did. I noticed it when ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2024
3 points

Can relate to this, my mom went to her grave without me ever been able to hold a proper normal conversation with her. I'm 61 now and it's in back of my mind I will prob die without ever been able ...

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Loneliness & IsolationQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2024
1 points

Totally relatable. Having a stutter is very isolating and frustrating. My advice is to tell yourself affirmations when going through bad speech phases. My favorite quote to remind myself is, “what I h...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyHope & MotivationLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterFeb 6, 2024
26 points

Might just kill myself

Might just kill myself Where do I begin? Every day it's the same shit, feeling horrible, not wanting to go to school, not wanting to be an outcast all day. And then coming back home to cry alone. I do...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2024
9 points

I've honestly considered it. I initially came out here because I wanted to be around my family. I thought I would have some sense of community and support. But I've been proven otherwise....

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Loneliness & IsolationValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2024
1 points

Whenever I have a really embarrassing moment when I stutter, I can't move, i get all sweaty and I feel like I'm about to cry from embarrassment. Even though basically no one cares about my stutter, I ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSuicidal Ideation & High Distress+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2024
3 points

Yes, i have social anxiety too, i deliberately turn down invitations from relatives whenever there is a gathering or occasion, and that is so frustrating, i'd rather be alone than feel awkward talking...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2024
1 points

Yea it's a spiraling cycle. You need to one thing in order to get the other. Or at least it seems that way. Can you grow your social interactions without speaking? The only thing that comes to mind ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2024
3 points

This! Should be on top/pinned. I came to identical conclusion in my adult years, by stuttering from early age. Stutter person have struggles with talking, so he avoid it, then avoid social interaction...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionLoneliness & IsolationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2024
12 points

Yea ditto the fact that a lot of stutterers have under-developed social skills due avoidance behaviors as a way of coping with constant struggle to talk....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2024
8 points

I stopped talking to people (for the most part). This sub is obssessed with fitting in but I personally feel that acceptance means realizing I dont like talking to people so I just dont try to engag...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2024
5 points

I agree with you it truly is a disparity. You and many others in this subreddit may relate to with this but people have fits of anger or disgust when grouped up with us. The other case of this is NO O...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingLoneliness & IsolationFriendships & Belonging+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2024
5 points

There are worse impediments you could have. I do think a thing that really sucks about stuttering is it falls outside of being an actual genuine disability, or atleast its treated that way. Because of...

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Loneliness & IsolationAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2024
4 points

Yeah know the feeling all to well, you end up for hours thinking why didn't I just say nothing and end up hating yourself.. it's hard and sometimes hurting experience not been able to join in conve...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterJan 19, 2024
10 points

I don’t know what to do…

I don’t know what to do… I (27m) have had a stammer since the age of six. My stammer is something I never truly dealt with. My parents didn’t see it as a problem, so they didn’t bother to put me thro...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2024
20 points

I’m sorry you are hurting so badly. I’m 21 and going through the same thought patterns as you. It’s taken my will to live personally. Judgement is too much for me and I get it every day at work. I ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2024
3 points

I have pretty much the same one. Not some cute movie-like stutter where you repeat a letter couple of times. It’s physical and sometimes even my neck and shoulders hurt from it. I can’t recommend any ...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2024
15 points

You are about 50 steps ahead of people like me here. I am older than you, dropped out of college, don’t have a job, never had a girlfriend. If it makes you feel better, I think you are doing great...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2024
2 points

Man I would go there everyday just so I could talk and befriend the waitstaff. It feels so lonely being a stutterer sometimes.....

Social & Relationships
Loneliness & Isolation