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commentr/StutterDec 27, 2020
3 points

I too have had this same experience, I am a life long stutterer. I'm 29 now and have come to accept it a little bit. I mostly get treated like I am stupid at work, because everybody automatically assu...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionTrauma & Psychological+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 26, 2020
4 points

I was 14, working my first job as a busboy. I was asking a man if he wanted coffee, and I blocked like REALLY hard. He looked at me wide-eyed and bursted out laughing. He jokingly said he wanted a wor...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 26, 2020
2 points

This has really hit me, we really are the same. Sadly fate isnt on our side. Why does such bullshit always happen. Why is it always the things that we love to do? Why do they backfire? I feel you so m...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 26, 2020
1 points

I think it started wayyy back in elementary school for me. I had a very strict home-room teacher who'd go ballistic over anyone talking in her class, so I developed this habit of not talking at all, a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 26, 2020
3 points

Someone in middle school said to me I sound like an AK-47 (automatic rifle) trying to pronounce my name in the first day. That was years ago, before school shootings became a trend....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2020
4 points

I was working in the drive thru and I stuttered taking telling this man his total and they busted out laughed and told me I need to learn to talk. Honestly I have countless stories like that, being fr...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2020
3 points

Now ive grown to accept my stutter. And if anyone has anything bad to say about it, i wont be afraid to tell them off lmao. My elementary through high school years, were ROUGH though. I had a hard tim...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2020
4 points

I normally have blocks when I say my name and one time when I went to this party and everyone was introducing themselves (my nightmare) this girl approached me and I had a block, she then proceeded to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2020
7 points

Oh man. I received a lot of comments. Some were mean-spirited. A “friend” when i was younger said, “WHATS WRONG WITH YOU? SPIT IT OUT!” A grown adult asked me once “Did you forget how to speak?”in a m...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 25, 2020
14 points

What’s the meanest thing someone said to you as a stutterer?

What’s the meanest thing someone said to you as a stutterer? -A “friend” once said to me in a “jokey” way “I’m not going to hangout with you because I don’t wanna develop a stutter”...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2020
1 points

True! I was taught a breathing exercise and it helped me not stutter as often but it was still unnatural and I’m getting more weird looks as ever🙁 stuttering really sucks!!!!...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2020
2 points

Don't be sorry! having been a genuine guinea pig I had about 4 SLP interns per year moderated by a very unpleasant woman who's name is now emblazon on the pre-pre-k school I was also sent to (with ver...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2020
2 points

This is hard for me as well. We don’t talk that much because of our disability and when we have a great joke, we mess it up with our speech and people laugh at the wrong thing. It hurts our feelings. ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterDec 22, 2020
36 points

Vent

Vent Hey you, I apologise for any mistakes, English is my second language. to explain my situation: I was stuttering badly from second to eight grade, like really badly, I would cry in class and peopl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2020
2 points

I agree, no one wants to hear others stutter and struggle with words....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2020
1 points

I’m giving the presentation to my class, I told the teacher and the class that I stutter, but the teacher laughed at it because she thought I was just joking. 👁👄👁️...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2020
2 points

I thought I was the only one who speaks perfectly when I go to speech therapists. So frustrating 🙄 I feel you 100%; this feels like a fucking curse sometimes....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2020
1 points

i can almost 100% relate to this. my stutter is also quite bad and when i go the my speech therapist it feels like he sometimes thinks that i might have faked it as i dont stutter talking with him. wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterDec 19, 2020
8 points

Stutter PTSD

Stutter PTSD Hello, Im 18 years old and have been stuttering since i was 9. Recently i went to a new school and due to 2 presentations my stutters have become worse, i didnt want to do them at first ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 19, 2020
22 points

Just need to vent

Just need to vent So tonight I was trying to tell my mom how when I let the dog outside, she usually comes back to the door with her kong. The times she doesn’t, if I ask her “where’s your toy? Where ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment