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postr/StutterSep 3, 2024
12 points

What were some of your nicest encounters with others?

What were some of your nicest encounters with others? We discuss our bad experiences with people on this sub so often, but what were some of the nicest encounters you’ve had with non-stutterers? Whe...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
0 points

Sorry i chose the wrong word, what i mean is they point out they can't understand me properly sometimes they laugh, i know they don't mean anything bad but it feels bad to me that why can't i speak cl...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
5 points

Just reading this gave me huge anxiety. I know that it's probably unpopular opinion and might be seen as running away from problems but you can turn it down. I wouldn't call this cowardice because w...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & Psychological
postr/StutterSep 3, 2024
25 points

I have a presentation in 3 days, any tips?

I have a presentation in 3 days, any tips? Am shitting my pants. Its infront of like 35 students and the teacher. ITS NOT A GROUP PRESENTATION, i will be ALONE in front of them. Am used to grp present...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 3, 2024
4 points

My anxiety isn't as bad as it used to be but...

My anxiety isn't as bad as it used to be but... Nowadays I would consider myself to have mild social anxiety that fluctuates (I don't know why). Majority of the time when I'm at school I can be okay w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
1 points

I always think this but when it comes time to talk to someone who I don’t usually talk to the thought of them not knowing really gets to me. they might be Ben ask if I’m okay because of my stuttering ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
12 points

But how brother! Its not a spell that we say "I don't care what others think" and we stop caring. Its actually not completely even care about others. Its much more complicated...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
0 points

The downside is that I fear I might say it in a sarcastic tone or something and that someone will take it the wrong way...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
0 points

My biggest worry is that people will think I’m on drugs, if I’m fluent for a while and then start stuttering again. (I mean sometimes I am on drugs but it doesn’t cause stuttering…)...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHarmful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
2 points

I haven't talk to a girl for more then a week but for me its more because of my anxiety disorder then stuttering i think...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 2, 2024
4 points

I struggle with ordering food at a restaurant

I struggle with ordering food at a restaurant As a rising high school freshman it’s not very common that waiters/waitresses see someone stutter when trying to order. I contemplate every time I see a ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
1 points

The girl waitress at the restaurant I went to tonight was really cute. I was able to crack a joke or two and make her smile, and I think she was into me. A buddy said me would give her my number, but ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
0 points

yeah I mean although girls nowadays tend to be more accepting of different types of people, they still think I'm weird as fuck when I talk to them. I'm 18 and haven't talked to any girls throughout hi...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterSep 2, 2024
5 points

How to help first day of school anxiety?

How to help first day of school anxiety? So I'm going into my senior year tomorrow and the anxiety is just so bad. I struggle saying my name, and it's my worst nightmare when the teacher asks us to in...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 2, 2024
8 points

how to stop stuttering with words beginning with n

how to stop stuttering with words beginning with n hi everyone. i started a new job that requires me to say the word “nutrition” a lot… problem is that i stutter so much when i say words that start w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
2 points

Gonna be honest, you shouldn’t blind date if you stutter. Odds are going to be greatly against you with the instant judgment. My dh is the main stutter. I had a very mild case and it only came out whe...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
3 points

Outside of slapping my thigh, this is...pretty accurate to my situation. I understand u/_inaccessiblerail means good, but not all problems can be summed up to "you need to get out of your shell" or "y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
1 points

I’m currently not dating, but your future partner shouldn’t judge you based off your stutter. If your stutter is an issue to them, then they’re not worth your time....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
7 points

im 19f, stuttering since age 5. its still as severe as when i was a kid. i havent had much issues with dating due to the stutter itself, but i'm assuming gay women are a lot more accepting than straig...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
9 points

Same bere my friend. my stuttering is somehow ok, but whenever I approach girls, it gets out of control. Their face, when they look at me so puzzled, is very shaming...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying