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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2024
2 points

Well said. My experiences are very similar. It’s effective, but I wish it was easier. As with most things, growth and improvement rarely happen without some discomfort....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2024
1 points

Public speaking is scary for those who don’t practice. I assume your dysfluency isn’t severe or your boss wouldn’t have asked you. As an instructor you would improve over time - more relaxed etc. It’...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Public SpeakingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
2 points

I also started going out more and doing exposure therapy for few months. I've seen some improvements. As you have said it's extremely uncomfortable and somedays are like hell. The more you get out of ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
2 points

I think that you should not avoid situations where you have to speak, because this will only increase your stress and stuttering. Recently, my teacher asked me to represent my class at an assembly w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
1 points

I have this same problem. I find exposure therapy works well over time. It’s extremely uncomfortable, of course, but there eventually comes a point when you’re around these uncomfortable things long e...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
2 points

I can relate. My gut reaction is always to turn down opportunities like this because it’s uncomfortable and I’m afraid of what might happen. Even so, I will usually say “yes” to this stuff anyway, no...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
2 points

this is the way... our mind is the most powerful tool there is, and we can achieve great things by visualizing what we want to achieve AS IF WE'VE ALREADY ACHIEVED IT, taking risks & facing our fear...

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Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
5 points

The key is to force yourself a little out of your comfort zone. Yes it is embarrassing at first but it is necessary! Trust me!...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
1 points

I would also be terrified but it would be a great opportunity to grow. You can start out by stating you have a stutter then just get into it. I think you would get more respect than ridicule by having...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
8 points

I pushed myself outside of my comfort zone and recommend that people always try new things. The only way to GUARANTEE your failure is to never try...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
3 points

I really appreciate your post. This is the motivation we need to overcome our anxiety and fear of stuttering. It really helps...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
4 points

That guy is a cunt who should feel shame, not you. Anyone that mocks anyone for something like a stutter clearly isn’t happy and clearly hasn’t and won’t go far in life Keep your head up, OP ❤️...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
1 points

Some people might not advise this, but this is something I did. At the start of each year, I emailed all my teachers and let them know of my stutter. Many teachers let me opt out of presentations. The...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
25 points

Listen, I have been really struggling with my stutter, until suddenly something dawned on me and it’s been helping a lot recently. You can’t control your stutter, but you CAN CONTROL your CONFIDENCE....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
2 points

There’s more to all of us than the fact that we stutter. I bet some of you are hilarious, wicked smart, amazing chess players, runners, skiers, chefs, a loyal friend, avid readers, movie critics, anim...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
4 points

Bob Marley said it best: forget your troubles and DANCE, forget your weakness and DANCE. I know you're down in the dumps right now and stuttering has wore you down. I don't know about you but I tend...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
2 points

What I usually try to do now is hype myself up before the interview, repeat positive affirmations and smile a lot. If I stutter, I tell the interviewer about my speech impediment and quickly move on. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
5 points

Somedays are just bad, can't help because you lose all the hope and confidence you have built over the days. You feel why this curse came to me only. But after 2-3 therapy session I'm ok with whateve...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
1 points

You tell your friends you don’t appreciate it when they speak to you like that about your stuttering. If they don’t like it, then go it alone at school. Don’t get too heated, though it would be tempti...

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commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
12 points

Yeah, like 20 years ago. It was bad. It’s better, I got better and feel better. Find new friends, get a hobby, start working out a new gym, shake it up....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideFriendships & Belonging