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postr/StutterJul 23, 2024
9 points

have yall ever thought of talking in a fake voice

have yall ever thought of talking in a fake voice like how stutterers don’t stutter when they sing, sometimes i’ve thought of trying to talk in a deeper voice to everyone, kinda feels the same as sin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
1 points

Just tough it out. Don't let other humans affect you. Never allow someone to have that power over you. You need to laugh with them and stop seeing ur stutter as a disability. It IS funny. I've laugh...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
5 points

Just tough it out. Don't let other humans affect you. Never allow someone to have that power over you. You need to laugh with them and stop seeing ur stutter as a disability. It IS funny. I've laugh...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
6 points

This, if I'm just talking and saying words less likely to stutter...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
2 points

i believe in you, dont worry about what other people think (i know its hard for a stutterer) and always say exactly what you want to say. Im sorry your classmates are so immature i also experienced th...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
0 points

Interestingly, I think many people who stutter do not know that their secondary behaviors are a direct result of attempts to avoid having repetitions. Many people here incorrectly think their inabil...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
3 points

Same! I stutter a lot more when I've prepared what I want to say for a while. I think that's why I don't stutter when reading it loud, because I'm saying the words right as I see them, so my brain doe...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
1 points

Your understanding of “stuttering” is vastly different from mine. If your stutter is noticeable in any way, *they will know*. Additionally, if your stutter is covert and manifests as confusing pause...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
0 points

Couldn’t disagree more. Disclosing that you (candidate) have a stutter/speech impediment during or before a job interview (what this post is about) opens the ability for the interviewer/company to d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJul 23, 2024
35 points

I think I'm gonna give up my dreams

I think I'm gonna give up my dreams Growing up my family didn't have a lot of money, so education was my only hope. I was bullied and laughed at because of my stutter in highschool, I thought universi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
10 points

Same, and also whenever I have to say a particular specific word that can't be substituted, like someone's name. Or when I manage to say something correctly the first time and then someone asks me to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionCycles & Randomness+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
2 points

No, and to be honest I don't think I ever will. And I'm ok with that. Ever since I was a kid, and still now as an adult, I was told that I had to become fluent or I wouldn't be successful. Whenever I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterJul 23, 2024
22 points

What triggers your stutter.

What triggers your stutter. For me its when I have to think about what I want to say, not like a passive thought, but an active thought. So when im talking with a big group where I have to wait a whil...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
1 points

I'm learning a second language and my stutter is worse in it because I have to stop and think about what I want to say since I'm not anywhere near fluency yet. Because I mostly stutter when I think ab...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
2 points

This is misinformed and will negatively impact people who have a different kind of a stutter than you. Many jobs require effective communication many stutterers are unable to speak the words they wan...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
2 points

Been stuttering since I was 5 something, was shy, bullied in school, was invisible to girls in college as someone put it down in the comments, still hate phone calls and interviews, even talking to my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
2 points

I feel like I am out going as well, I like to join in conversations with people who can actually talk,.but I'll say it's tough at times. I've found that now I'm older it seems easier and people are mo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
1 points

I'm Sweden raised and I have the \_EXACT\_ same issue. I formulate and know EXACTLY what I want to say, and I do PRONOUNCE everything flawlessly, BUT I always get trapped in stuttering and speaking wi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
1 points

I didn’t have a stutter so to speak but I had OCD so bad I would repeat words out loud until they sounded right to me. With an uncanny amount of will power for a kid I taught myself to say them over a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterJul 22, 2024
6 points

I'm think about going to speech therapy

I'm think about going to speech therapy Hi everyone, I am a stutter and I am thinking about going to therapy. My stutter is not extremely serious, like I think I stutter at most on 30% of all of the w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more