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commentr/StutterAug 24, 2017
3 points

Well, there is something in between putting that you stutter in your profile and just showing up at a date without ever telling the other person, yes? You'd normally have some back and forth with som...

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commentr/StutterAug 24, 2017
2 points

The con is that you might also weed out people who are on the fence about stuttering but are looking for their unicorn on a datingsite. I never tell them straight away, but I do before a first date so...

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commentr/StutterAug 23, 2017
5 points

It might weed out the judgemental people and save yourself some time. It might be a good thing if you do advertise it...

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commentr/StutterAug 23, 2017
2 points

OP, when I was in high school, I had an IEP like I've seen suggested ITT, but what really helped was just talking to my teachers. My sophomore year, I opened up to my teachers that I stutter. They al...

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postr/StutterAug 23, 2017
3 points

Telling People I Stutter on Dating Sites

Telling People I Stutter on Dating Sites I was wondering does anybody think this a good idea? I feel like when I did not explicitly state that I stutter on my profiles I received a lot more messages a...

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commentr/StutterAug 23, 2017
7 points

I hate hate hate ice breakers in any format. I have a mild stutter also, and my first and last name are my trouble letters. If it's a casual crowd I usually go ahead and explain that I do have a...

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commentr/StutterAug 23, 2017
1 points

I just started today and it's always been "something you did over the summer." I wish it were a fun fact since I would just say that I have a stutter....

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commentr/StutterAug 23, 2017
2 points

My only recommendation is to get in first with your name, introduce yourself before you're asked. That way you have control of the situation. It's being asked and prompted that causes the anxiety and...

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commentr/StutterAug 23, 2017
1 points

No, it's not safe to say. You can have good oral communication skills AND have a stutter. I'm saying "good" instead of "excellent," because that's a bunch of crap when they say "excellent this and e...

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commentr/StutterAug 22, 2017
2 points

Try looking up pathologists/therapists in your area. Also, don't be afraid to tell people you have a stutter. Having a stutter makes you who you are and sets you apart from everyone else. By acknowled...

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commentr/StutterAug 22, 2017
6 points

Tell the teachers what's going on! You should never be marked down for having a stutter. Also, being more open about it will help some....it breaks some of the shame just to say it out loud....

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2017
2 points

Firstly, I think all the steps you're making are incredibly positive and it's impressive you've realized you should do this on your own. I assume your co-workers know that you stutter. They would expe...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2017
3 points

Yes, definitely tell people. This will help. Of course they can hear it (tho some might not know what it is), but being open about it automatically makes it less of a big deal for you and everyone, ...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2017
2 points

Thanks for the reply means alot. Yeah ill just be honest about it. Doesn't make any sense to hide it. How long did it take you to learn the actual work? Cause apparently i suck at using a pallet jack ...

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commentr/StutterAug 19, 2017
3 points

Hey! I just got out of a warehouse job to go to school. At first it was really tough for me and I felt like people thought I was stupid simply because I wasn't able to say some words. Some still do. B...

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commentr/StutterAug 11, 2017
7 points

I do most of my dating via online apps and whatnot. I'll chat with them for a while, maybe a week or two that way. Then when it comes time to meet I'll tell them I have a stutter that I've been workin...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
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postr/StutterAug 1, 2017
36 points

I was able to order food through the phone and I am happy!

I was able to order food through the phone and I am happy! I was able to order my lunch through my work phone today. I had always avoided the phone either by ordering through e-mail or asking someone ...

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commentr/StutterJul 13, 2017
3 points

I understand what you're going through. My only suggestion is that you let the people know beforehand that you stutter, so that neither they nor you expect perfect fluency. It has helped me in a numbe...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2017
1 points

Its better to tell people things from the start when you work, rather them find out, usually a lot more awkward....

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2017
2 points

That's exactly what happened today. I'm surprised how accurately you described it. Of course I opened up about a week after I started which made things a bit awkward to discuss because they were like ...

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