That's exactly what happened today. I'm surprised how accurately you described it. Of course I opened up about a week after I started which made things a bit awkward to discuss because they were like "We know. It's no big deal. You're doing a great job." They were really nice about to be honest and put me at ease but ya except the awkward part which may have been due to my part of not knowing how to explain why I'm telling this to them know. The lesson here I guess to tell them from day 1 and as you said with no fancy reasons just point blank here's the facts here's what to expect.