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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2020
1 points

Thats actually a really great question, I've gone through something very similar, I think this will resonate with your situation. So yes, "over preparing" to you right now means to analyze what you ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2020
1 points

>Thanks! Great way to think about it. The nervousness is a mixture of stuttering and other things like what the other person thinks of me, whether what I am saying makes sense, etc....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2020
2 points

It sounds like whether or not you prepare, you might stutter. Right? So perhaps the question isn't about preparation. It also sounds like you get nervous, and think you can only solve this via prepar...

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Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 19, 2020
8 points

Balancing between over preparing and under preparing

Balancing between over preparing and under preparing Hey guys, I have a problem that I am unable to figure out how to navigate. At work during calls when I have to give a presentation or lead a meetin...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2020
1 points

but there are many thoughts every day new imaginations, I do not believe that any doctor can do anything about it when the cause of all this, Is my stuttering but I have excessive thoughts I do not kn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2020
1 points

many thoughts come to me about the fact that I can not do some things as others do and this causes me to create thoughts as if I were the same what I would do and how things would be different if I we...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2020
3 points

I really agree with this post. Learning to focus on expressing yourself rather than focusing on your speech is very hard to do. At least it has been for me. However I really believe this to be the key...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2020
2 points

It's the other way around for me. Overthinking causes me to stutter....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2020
2 points

Cause the thoughts get all stuck there. That’s what a stutter is, isn’t it? Hahha In all seriousness though I used to think that when I was a kid. Like “I must have so many thoughts in my head cause...

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Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2020
3 points

It may even be the other way around. At least in my case when i speak intuitively aka just blurt words out i never stutter.When i think about a word i get minor blocks yet when i fear or overthink so...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2020
2 points

Dude I’ve noticed this too. It’s just hard to keep that stigma of ideals in your mind while your talking to people. It’s like anxiety just eats up all ur confidence once you feel a block coming. For m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2020
9 points

Absolutely. Keep in my mind this is what has helped me and may not work for all. This might be long but I’ll do my best. As I was researching stuttering I became convinced that stuttering was not re...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Trauma & PsychologicalOverthinking & MonitoringMindfulness & Breathing+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2020
8 points

You sound a lot like I did in my mid twenties. That’s when I got so fed up with my stutter that I think I borderline read everything ever written on the topic. I just want to tell you it can get bet...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterDec 16, 2020
15 points

Lacking conversational skills

Lacking conversational skills Hello guys, I am 24 year old male living in London. I have had a stutter for most of my life (sucks). As a kid I was outgoing, bubbly and funny. However, as life went on ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2020
1 points

Well, that's what I wanted to hear more about. The worry is that you're merely _assuming_ these things, where instead other things are actually happening. That wouldn't be good, because it would mean ...

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Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2020
1 points

Always that second time of repeating isn’t it that’s the worst ones! Stresses you to want to say LISTEN. 🤣!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 13, 2020
4 points

Questions!

Questions! I’m interested in why people like me and you stutter and enjoy doing research on the stutter and if we all have the same experiences and ways it works. and if anyone could answer some of th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2020
3 points

When I stutter and they say "can you repeat that sentence again?" I get full on anxiety and a red face, I stutter even worse saying it the second time that I just give up....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2020
3 points

Prior to an interview and during the interview, I like to sit in power positions. Power positions are different ways you can make yourself look bigger, thus more confidence in your abilities. Simple a...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2020
10 points

When someone asks me to repeat something. I say it perfectly the first time but because I talk quietly people tell me to repeat and it's a stuttering mess now. It's even worse with masks on now...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringRepetitions & Prolongations