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commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
2 points

It gets better with age, yeah. I started seeing it more as a gauge on the personality of who I was speaking to, rather than a reflection of how I should feel about myself....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
1 points

I’m so sorry you are going through this. I had just as much of a hard time in high school. In fact I still have vivid dreams about embarrassing presentations and getting called on to read and barely b...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic LifeIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
3 points

I really admire those who can speak with a smooth and relaxed voice.

I really admire those who can speak with a smooth and relaxed voice. When listening to some podcasts, youtube videos, or presentation, some videos like this [one](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J0NuO...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
1 points

Hello I’m 34 M and I have stutter since 7. Seeking a therapist will help but what also helps is to check in with yourself and tell yourself I stutter so what it’s who I am and if that change that’s go...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
1 points

I manage a gift shop so I deal with people every day. And yes I’ve stuttered my whole life. It’s really hard and I hope you find something that helps you!...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
8 points

There was an Oscar winner about a stuttering King a decade ago. It’s just really not that common. And mostly invisible. I don’t blame people for not being aware of us....

Identity & Disability
Public Awareness / MediaIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
2 points

A lot of us feel less important. Stuttering does real damage to our sense of self worth. Today needs to be the day you look in the mirror and see the most important person in the world. Every time ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
3 points

I see a man of resolve and brevity in you. Don’t be disheartened. With this new age of technology, you can be anyone you want. Most jobs don’t need speaking roles anyway. Most centimilion dollar tech,...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationEmployment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2024
6 points

I’m 67 yo. I remember taking a speech class in high school. I gave a speech on mixing drinks and acted like there was really vodka in the bottle and that I was getting drunk. The teacher came over to ...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Personal StoriesIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2024
1 points

Untrue. Biden has been open about having had a stutter for decades...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2024
2 points

Yes, stutterers have some kind of misfiring in the brain, so they are as neurodivergent as ADHD or autistic people. I think the difference is their "difference" is much harder to ignore at the surfac...

Identity & Disability
Medicalization / NeurodiversityIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2024
1 points

It can definitely be genetic. Stuttering runs through my family on my dad's side...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2024
1 points

Agreed! On the other hand, even being queer or neurodivergent (for example ADHD and bipolar) started to be normalized but the stuttering remains and probably will remain in weird side alongside with m...

Identity & Disability
Medicalization / NeurodiversityIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2024
2 points

Yes, even before society had taught me that I was a "freak", i used to befriend the immigrant and foreign and queer kids at grade school. Like is drawn to like. And they were usually more interesting...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Friendships & BelongingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterFeb 14, 2024
1 points

Stuttering and Stoicism + Taylor Swift

Stuttering and Stoicism + Taylor Swift I’m a fan of Ryan Holiday and his writings where he aims to share the stoics as guides and inspiration for daily life. His book, “The Obstacle is the Way” coul...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2024
14 points

Seek out eccentrics, indie people, freaks, and other outsiders (including immigrants). They are used to being outcasts and usually aren't as judgemental due to being excluded themselves from the mains...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Friendships & BelongingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMedicationFeb 13, 2024
1 points

Thank you very much for sharing your journey here, most people dont realize that its not a speech issue (how can you fluent when alone or talking to friend/pet/wife and not when talking outside). its ...

Identity & DisabilityMeds & SubstancesTherapy & Professional
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelpful Med OutcomesSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2024
1 points

It will pass, I was you just a few years ago, I had a teaching job that's mandatory as the final step of graduation in my country, somehow my stutter became extreme out of nowhere, I had 0 anxiety and...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2024
2 points

OP - it’s hard to see what is when we’re all consumed with something else, like the stutter being the source of all things negative in our life....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2024
5 points

Absolutely, anyone who has had it severe holds the trauma and experiences that came with it. It will always be somewhere in the back of their mind and always has the chance of coming back if life circ...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Identity & Self-PerceptionOnset & Life-Stage Changes