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postr/StutterJul 5, 2021
3 points

Recently realized that me fumbling over my words constantly is actually a stutter

Recently realized that me fumbling over my words constantly is actually a stutter I’ve always been really self-conscious about the way I speak, but I didn’t realize it was a stutter until… literally y...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
2 points

i will later maybe, i’m too scared of fucking shit up i haven’t been with him in a long time and he has been mad today,idk if he still is. i think we need more time together to be better. the meanes...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
3 points

I wouldnt say I totally 'dont care' I still get very anxious, but I have stopped avoiding speaking situations. Basically, I was 21 I was very very depressed. Depression typically makes people care les...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
1 points

I just think if I can stutter through things when I'm at my worst, then bad days won't feel so bad, and good days will feel great. I've tried supps and things in the past and just ended up feeling wor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterJul 4, 2021
3 points

It’s eating me up how much I’ve missed out on.

It’s eating me up how much I’ve missed out on. I don’t stutter as much, more so cluttering (the words come out faster than my brain can process them) and I’ve realised how much in life I’ve missed out...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterJul 4, 2021
3 points

Why don’t I stutter when I speak in a very low voice, but stutter when I speak in a normal voice or in a loud way?

Why don’t I stutter when I speak in a very low voice, but stutter when I speak in a normal voice or in a loud way? [deleted]...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
1 points

I would’ve added a knife through the brain to represent the knife through the brain you get when you stutter in front of a girl....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
13 points

I’m impressed by your artistic skills, and also horrified for your suffering. I noticed all the eyes staring at you, too......

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
2 points

yea this is the only problem. my mom beats me when i do something wrong, talks rudely about me and just stuff. like if it was my mom with the bra thing she would’ve smacked me or something. when my d...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
3 points

Mocking your stammer is pretty severe, but I guess if he is nice to you in all other aspects then maybe he’s just unaware of how inevitably big of a part it is of your life. Also, about your mom bein...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
3 points

thank you a lot, they’ve been divorced/apart since before i could remember so idc. no i don’t see my dad a lot i haven’t been over his house since like 5th/6th grade i’m going into 10th now. like i sa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 4, 2021
40 points

I don’t like jokes at my expense

I don’t like jokes at my expense i’m at my dads and he keeps making jokes about my stutter. i know they are just jokes and stuff but it hurts my feelings. like i was trying to get a new bra because i ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
6 points

This is me too. This is me. Exact at this moment. Its what made me get on my reddit app right now. The name thing hurts. It hurts me soo bad. Im almost in tears typing this. I've lost everything amids...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2021
1 points

I hope I can get where you’re at someday, it’s so hard for me to accept my stutter because I just find it annoying,tiring and straight up embarrassing. Hopefully going away for college helps me...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2021
1 points

I can absolutely relate to every single thing you wrote! It's like you exactly summarized my entire life so far. And yeah... I feel like the happiest person in the world when I finish a smooth sente...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2021
1 points

I think a lot of us grow up feeling that way. Stuttering can be such a destructive force against our self esteem....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2021
1 points

From my experience of the half year that I went to college, no one laughed at me either and was patient. However I just felt so bad about it, I felt incompetent and stupid when I stuttered with groupw...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterJun 30, 2021
30 points

I stuttered over. every. word. during my interview

I stuttered over. every. word. during my interview Probably the same story we've seen here multiple times but I just needed to vent. Disclosed the stutter, got the disability accommodations, felt comf...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career+1 more
postr/StutterJun 29, 2021
7 points

How??

How?? How do you guys deal with mentioning or telling your job (or something that you do) without struggling? I just can't seem to say it, it begins with E so it's kinda horrible and embarrassing beca...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2021
6 points

Exactly! It's like people think we enjoy stuttering or that we are just too lazy to try different treatments which cost thousands of dollars each and don't guarantee anything....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment