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commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2022
2 points

I most certainly relate to what you describe. I have a covert stammer, effects of which are rarely visible to observers… one book I recently came across and one I recommended highly is the following ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Hiding & ConcealmentResearch & Resources
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2022
5 points

Hi, I interned to a police department and I have a moderate stutter. It shouldn't hinder police work unless it's VERY severe, at which point it would jeopardize your safety (for example, you have to b...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2022
3 points

A few quick thoughts here. Some people stutter more when they’re most relaxed, as they ‘allow themselves’ to stutter when it matters less. Maybe since you know he stutters and he knows you don’t judge...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2022
1 points

This sounds a lot like me. Nobody knows I stutter and I've tried my whole life to hide it and I've been pretty successful at that. That's probably not the best thing to do, but back when I was young...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentSchool & Academic LifePreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2022
6 points

Find good speech therapy. It sounds like you're a covert stutterer. I think it's great you went back and want to go to law school. I know a couple stuttering lawyers and there are probably some on her...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Seeking TherapyHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2022
2 points

I would take it a step further... just say what you can say as a starting phrase. Get comfortable with that and then try to incorporate the company drivel. You won't lose your job over it(and if you...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2022
1 points

Oh man I feel you. I made YouTube videos and stream twitch for fun on my off time. Hearing my stutter play back to me is like a huge punch in the gut. Especially when I thought I was doing great, just...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2022
1 points

I definitely will have to try some different starter phrases. I’ve tried “hi welcome to” but that’s hard as well. I’ll come up with some other ones :) thanks for the help!...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2022
1 points

Don't think a lot about what people around you are think about your stuttering. It will just make your situation worse. Better avoid them. If you have not taken any speech therapy yet, then consider t...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Seeking TherapyAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2022
11 points

I worked at a McDonald's when I was a kid & had a similar issue. Easiest thing to do is just stick with what they want you to say, but change it up slightly to make it easier to get out. For ins...

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postr/StutterFeb 5, 2022
12 points

Fast food speaker

Fast food speaker Hi…I’ve never posted on here before but reading so many peoples stories has made me want to put my own out there. I work at a Dunkin’ Donuts and of course there is a drive thru. All ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & ProlongationsHiding & Concealment+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 3, 2022
12 points

Stuttering has made me avoid all human interaction that doesn’t include my family. The only time i’m able to properly interact and converse with others is when i’m drunk

Stuttering has made me avoid all human interaction that doesn’t include my family. The only time i’m able to properly interact and converse with others is when i’m drunk And i’m not even exaggarating....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2022
1 points

Disclosing is actually a therapy technique that can also serve to not make your stutter worse. Trying to hide it can make it worse in long run. But I see how some work situations can make it difficu...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterJan 30, 2022
3 points

I'm going to have to do a speech for a school project tomorrow. Any tips?

I'm going to have to do a speech for a school project tomorrow. Any tips? I have a mild stutter that seems to worsen every time I need to speak to a large group of people. I've done presentations in t...

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Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2022
4 points

True, Samuel L. Jackson is a famous one. I remember him talking about how he sometimes changes the script to replace words which he knows will cause a stutter to more fluent words. Very interesting, y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentRoles & Performance
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2022
8 points

Very very normal for stutterers. There are even a bunch of actors who stutter, but you’d never know it. Look it up....

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Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2022
5 points

There are different degrees/types of stuttering, a spectrum of impact. I think everyone begins on one end and a combination of a sensitive temperament and no effective treatment, they progress toward...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2022
12 points

Sorry to hear that you've been struggling, but i think porn is an issue no matter what a persons circumstances are. Quitting porn is obvisouly the smart choice, but i know thats easier said then done....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2022
1 points

We have King's Speech which is a fucking masterpiece, sure, Colin doesn't stutter in real life, but by god man he was able to portray it well. ​ There's a reason we don't see people with ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentRoles & Performance
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2022
1 points

I second this. I work in a hospital, and over time I have reduced my stuttering in nerve-rattling situations. Focus on the information you need to convey, and not on trying not to stutter. Your hard ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight