Sorry to hear that you've been struggling, but i think porn is an issue no matter what a persons circumstances are. Quitting porn is obvisouly the smart choice, but i know thats easier said then done. I also stutter and watch porn, but i dont think the two relate to each other at all. That being said, my stutter still impacts my social life in a very severe way. Porn, for me, is the same as every other social media on my phone. I think my phone in general is such an escape for me. Like you said, you pour yourself into virtual reality where your inabilities or impairments are not something you struggle with. I relate to that so much, especially when it involves dating apps. Im able to be myself online and put myself out there, but when it comes to meeting people in person, my stutter hold me back very severely. Porn is the easy way out of feeling lonely, because i know I'd never get something real out of actually meeting people. Its such a shitty circumstance that were both in, and people dont often realize what all comes with having a stutter, because it doesn't just involve blocks or repetitions in speech, but affects every aspect of our lives.