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commentr/StutterDec 13, 2017
8 points

Something that has helped me is being more open and honest with my stuttering. Talking to your superiors, being frank and discuss your struggles. Just getting it out in the open took an enormous amoun...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2017
1 points

I casually, self-deprecatingly mention my stutter on my Tinder profile....

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Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
postr/StutterDec 10, 2017
8 points

How to stop stuttering

How to stop stuttering Hi everyone I have had a stutter since I can remember and not being able to get my words out has played a major part of my life I'm now 37 and have just found by vaping CBD oil ...

Meds & SubstancesSocial & Relationships
Helpful Med OutcomesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2017
2 points

Do you advertise that you stutter? Putting it out there beforehand or near the start of an interview may make it easier on you and also make them more comfortable with it. It’s a bit like removing the...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2017
1 points

1. Relax and enjoy yourself! Just focus on that 2. Taking someone out for coffee is probably the best for a first date; it’s nice and informal and not too much of a commitment 3. Just ask! Don’t bu...

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Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2017
1 points

How many people have you talked to about being a stutterer? That'd probably be a good thing to focus on too. Unless you're taking it in small steps, sort of....

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commentr/StutterDec 5, 2017
2 points

I met my wife the old fashion way though friends but she knew i stuttered beforehand, since our friend told her. We talked a lot about stuttering on our first few dates. I thought her interest in it w...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterDec 5, 2017
7 points

Please share your dating experiences, tips and advice

Please share your dating experiences, tips and advice I'm in college and never dated before in my life because of the fear of the impression my stutter would create. However recently, I've been overco...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2017
1 points

Really depends on the context of the phone call. Usually if I have to make an appointment or do something with insurance, I just tell them that I have a speech impediment and it might take longer tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterDec 4, 2017
13 points

Outing myself

Outing myself I’ve been a PWS since I was around 3 years old. I’m now 26 and, while my stutter is very mild, it still deeply affects me emotionally and limits the things I allow myself to do. I’m not ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2017
1 points

Yea I feel bad I had to tell people in the past I had a concussion and brain damage which is my excuse. It's unfortunate for the most part when people learn you stutter specially as an adult they thin...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterDec 2, 2017
1 points

How do you deal with your stuttering when talking on the phone?

How do you deal with your stuttering when talking on the phone? 19M Hey guys, so I have been stuttering all my life (with it picking up in the past couple years) and while I took therapy, feel more c...

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Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2017
1 points

I think talking about stuttering, self-disclosing, whatever you call it takes time. It should be hard at first but it should get easier and easier as time goes. I know that's cliche, but it's how it h...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2017
1 points

Is it people you know or people you don't know or both? Maybe try and say 'I have a stammer' if their reaction is off, will often relax the situation! I'm not sure where you live but there is stamme...

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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2017
3 points

I understand your urge. But I think we have to temper our goals with practicality. As you say, you can't explain it all to everyone. My goal is more like "this is serviceable - now they have a basic i...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2017
1 points

I think that's very fair. And, usually I say less rather than more. But, I guess what I'm trying to say is that I feel pulled in two directions at times. On the one hand, I want to educate someone abo...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 29, 2017
12 points

I hate it when talking on the phone to a stranger and they think there is a bad connection

I hate it when talking on the phone to a stranger and they think there is a bad connection No, I’m not in a bad area, I’m not breaking up I have a stutter. Please don’t shoot me down by saying I’m bre...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2017
1 points

I don't really need them to know anything other than that for stutterers, sometimes words don't come out right, and it's not fully known why, and it can come and go at the drop of a dime. If they tak...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2017
1 points

Good point. I guess I want people to know something about stuttering other than just that I do it. Usually this takes the form of talking about ways people stutter. So, I'll talk to someone about that...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2017
1 points

How exhaustive* is your "educating"? I've just taken to quickly describing what stutter is about. Doesn't require much effort, really. *: Can't be complete, I know, because stutter is still not compr...

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