1. Relax and enjoy yourself! Just focus on that 2. Taking someone out for coffee is probably the best for a first date; it’s nice and informal and not too much of a commitment 3. Just ask! Don’t build it up too much. Just “hey did you wanna get some coffee some time?”. If you’re using apps I’d recommend asking sooner rather than later. I’ve messaged at length with a couple of people who I started to like, but it turned out they only wanted to message (or possibly just to sext 😳) and I could have found that out way earlier. 4. I’ve only gone out with people who weren’t friends beforehand, so I don’t really have an answer for this one. 5. The only move I know is that cheesy one where you’re like “oh you’ve got an eyelash” and you pretend to get one that’s fallen on their cheek off. But I would neeeever actually do that lol. I’m not sure I believe in ‘moves’? 6. I did have that I stutter on my profile, before that I told people before hand just to get it out of the way. I’m interested if other peeps have it on their profile? 7. Oh man you do not wanna know the worst (all I’ll say is avoid over dramatic but very good looking, but actually kind of mean boys from Grindr), but my best experience includes hot chocolate and kissing on the first date, and now being in a long term relationship.