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commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2018
3 points

Agreed. In the end no one really cares. Understand I mean that in a good way. Someone may make a joke or laugh in passing, but after that moment is over that person will never think of it again. Where...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2018
3 points

Two ways. First is not to care about stuttering and just aways say what you need to say. Don't care about what others think, don't care about making a scene. Just Speak. Second option, when your stutt...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2018
3 points

No, in thoughts I look like the most eloquent speaker. And I trying to transfer this state of mind on my life. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2018
2 points

Interesting read. Having a similar mindset has gotten me through some challenges, including stuttering. Also, I would definitely recommend lifting some weights, even if you think you are weak. Everybo...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftEnergy & Biological Rhythms
postr/StutterFeb 7, 2018
3 points

I was looking to start off working out, then I found this great article and it can apply to basically anything, for me its stuttering.

I was looking to start off working out, then I found this great article and it can apply to basically anything, for me its stuttering. ...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2018
1 points

Thank you for your advice. I agree, I always tell myself: "speak slowly'' but I'm so used to stuttering, that I prefer to speak faster with stutters than speaking slowly. How to deal with this though...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionEnergy & Biological RhythmsMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2018
6 points

M8, I used to be in your shoes, like exactly in your shoes. I used to be extremely sensitive to people's requests, tried not to annoy people, even though my stutter did even though I couldn't control ...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2018
4 points

I had the same problem when I was in high school, and in college when I didn't eat at the cafeteria, but at the restaurants on campus. I didn't complain to anyone, I used people's annoyance to better ...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerMindset shiftHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2018
3 points

Focus on the moment and what you want to say. Don't get caught up in trying to speak fluently and carry a conversation. What you just said - however you said it - is already said. Don't fear failing t...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2018
1 points

Indeed, what we learn from overcoming stuttering applies far beyond. I'll pm you the name. ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2018
2 points

You have an awesome attitude, keep it up! I was in a similar position in college (I'm 30 now) but nowhere near as mature -- I drugged myself up to my eyeballs, partially due to my insecurity about m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+3 more
postr/StutterJan 17, 2018
44 points

I stutter, and I spoke in front of 200 people. The only way out is through.

I stutter, and I spoke in front of 200 people. The only way out is through. ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2018
1 points

When I was in this mindset. I stopped stuttering. Granted, it's a subjective experience....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2018
1 points

You should care, and you also should give zero fucks. This is what I mean: If you REALLY didn't care, no progress would be made. You'd be ignorant to people's comments (whether they're meant to be...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2018
6 points

Fake it until you make it, as they say. I don’t care what others think of my stutter but I am 46 and it took me a long time to get here but I got here!...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
postr/StutterJan 15, 2018
30 points

I don't care anymore what ppl think

I don't care anymore what ppl think Today I am trying to not care what others think of my speech. They don't pay my bills or buy my food. They don't hold my hand when I cry. So why should their opinio...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2018
1 points

What did you do to change? How did you accept it? How does it not have the control it used to? Please share!!!!!!...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2018
2 points

First part of the book talks about the proper mindset for tackling a stutter. The Second part of the book focuses on the techniques you've probably heard of at a speech therapy class....

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2018
2 points

My 2cents. Start a cleaning company. If you have any family member or close friend that will handle the “talking/ setting up appointments” part, all you would have to do is basically the cleaning. T...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2018
2 points

hey dude, i know it's hard, trust me, i'm going through it now with my current job! what has helped me is just ... giving in, hah, if that makes sense. like i just say "okay, i stutter, so what?" mos...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingMindset shiftHiding & Concealment