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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2022
1 points

This used to happen to me sometimes. On really bad days i just used to record my status on my phone and play it out loud when it was my turn to speak. I advice against it. But somedays when I feel li...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2022
8 points

I get embarrassed all the time. I work at a desk job where I have to make calls some times and am constantly stuttering. But I don't let it over take me and I just embrace it. If I let the fear of emb...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2022
3 points

In December, I had a medical procedure where I needed to lay prone in recovery room for 6 hrs. For first two, I was unable to call for help (bc of stutter) and nurse forgot to give me a buzzer. I ju...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Quality of LifeHelplessness & AgencyHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2022
6 points

lmao when i stutter i blink a lot and my mouth shape changes or it just stays stiff when i get stuck, damn i wonder how that must have been weird to other people....

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Physical TensionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2022
1 points

Not really but my stutter isn't THAT pronounced. I mean it's there but I hide it quite well. It does stop my making friends with the more, I dunno, ignorant people I guess. Which isn't always a bad...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2022
1 points

Good idea, will definitely let will let a girl know if I am drunk that I am usually not this fluent. It will also take the pressure off me as well when I am sober which would in turn increase my flu...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2022
2 points

I very rarely drink. but when I do I am almost completely fluent. Exactly the reason why I drink rarely, because I would become addicted so fast and I have family who died from alcoholism...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2022
10 points

The effect of alcohol makes it significantly better but I wouldn’t say it cures it. Under the influence I’m not as self conscious. I’ll say anything. Whenever I think too much about what I want to say...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2022
2 points

Before I say anything I'd like to clarify that I don't stutter myself, most of what I will say is from what some friends who stutter have told me, and also from my own experience in public speaking si...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2022
1 points

Any chance you can Zoom? I find it much easier when I can see the person / know they can see me and what’s going on. Telephone is the hardest, esp when the other person is on speaker and there’s backg...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & NamesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2022
2 points

Very true. I have a phone appointment on Monday for my son. He’s in a program that requires annual review of everything going on in our lives. We just bought a new home in a different state (which I ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & NamesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2022
1 points

Amazing! I am a stutter bartender and sometimes everything turns so hard when i must talk with ppl about menu and cocktails. Gonna try your technique!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2022
3 points

So, stuttering = trying to forcefully repress something you are ashamed of. You still have fear when you are stuttering bc your conversation is ongoing. Or bc you know your life requires regularly *...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentTrauma & PsychologicalHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2022
4 points

I too struggle to fit in conversations sometimes because of my stutter. Especially in larger groups of people. If it's a 3-4 people conversation I tend to be able to speak better. It's good to surroun...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2022
1 points

I don’t know but I did read or hear from someone (I can’t remember) but people who stutter tend to talk to themselves more then the average person because we like to hear ourselves not stutter...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentExperiential Association
postr/StutterFeb 18, 2022
26 points

I think I just found out how to control my stutter

I think I just found out how to control my stutter Today I’ve had so much confidence because my stutter has been so easy to maintain. I always talk slower and feel like when somebody talks to be I nee...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Fluency TechniquesHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2022
3 points

Yeap. If society didn't view it as a problem we'd never think of stuttering as a problem and thus not develop negative feelings or avoidances. But that's not the world, so we need to unlearn all the n...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2022
2 points

Great comment. Disfluency is developed, but struggle is learned. We learn very early on stuttering is bad and we should try to avoid it. This is where we start yo worry about it, anticipate it, and do...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterFeb 18, 2022
13 points

My experience from speaking slowly

My experience from speaking slowly Have recently come to the decision that I have to start speaking slowly if I really want to mask my stutter, which as much as I don't want to, have decided is the be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentEnergy & Biological RhythmsAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2022
3 points

You are talking about it. That's a good first step. As a PWS, I can say that people don't really care how you speak. It's only YOU who is stressed. I have started disclosing people about my stutter a...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentSchool & Academic Life