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commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
5 points

Haha yes! The pain in peoples eyes when they’re listening is actually really funny to me days later after I’m done being embarrassed....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterAug 9, 2021
13 points

Worst stutter in a long time

Worst stutter in a long time Hey everybody, just needed to get this one off my chest. I have a relatively mild stutter but it can still get me sometimes. It has been getting more frequent over the las...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2021
3 points

SAME! The other day I wasn’t wearing my name tag cause I always point to it and somebody asked me my name and I was all “mu my my nnames names my my my n n names DDan!” And he started laughing and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2021
2 points

Agreed, greetings and goodbyes are the worst for me. It’s often awkward as fuck, and when the words do come out they are a jumbled distorted mess. It’s kinda hard to accept it if it makes most social ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2021
1 points

It’s not opinion, that’s the science behind it. I am not going to let falsities about stuttering be perpetuated. The anxiety one really makes me angry because it’s such bullshit and ignorance. It’s a ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2021
0 points

Well said, it is very unpredictable. Seems like I constantly sway from being positive about my stuttering to being negative about it. There’s confident moments for sure to where I feel like it’s not s...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Cycles & RandomnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2021
8 points

Hi there! I stutter too and can relate to your experience. I used to stutter pretty bad when I was younger and I still do from time to time, but it has improved. There are days where when I do stutter...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2021
6 points

Feel this. I have a stutter since I was 13 and it made me heavily insecure. I went years without talking to people outside of the family or in fear because people would mock me whenever I made weird f...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2021
2 points

Taught me to be more respectful with the other around me. Unfortunately only for others, and not for myself, all the positive experiences I had for situations, went wrong and it cost me to think more ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2021
2 points

Yes, I cant watch it. Also when I see other people stuttering in real life, I get tics as if I was stuttering. Its really weird. It just makes me feel really uncomfortable...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentPublic Awareness / Media
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2021
2 points

I've never har close friends talk to me like that, and if they did it would hurt my feelings too and I would tell them to stop. Youre not too sensitive imo...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2021
1 points

To be honest I did feel embarassed, yeah. But now it only makes me glad to know I'm not the only one. I've met stutterers throughout my life, but I've never been friends with one. Fluent people don't ...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentValidation & EmpathyPublic Awareness / Media
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2021
18 points

I remember worrying if I’d feel embarrassed when the movie “The Kings Speech” came out 10 years ago. I was afraid it would trigger me and I’d get upset and didn’t want anyone to see those emotions. So...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Public Awareness / MediaShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2021
12 points

Yes , it brings back our feelings how we felt during our worse moments . I feel terrible , 99% media shows stutterers as either funny or stupid ....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Public Awareness / MediaShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2021
8 points

Your feelings are valid. The media is terrible. Don't use them as any type of a compass. Tell your friend how you feel. How she made you feel. Her reaction will tell you a lot about the type of pers...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Awareness / MediaShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterAug 5, 2021
21 points

Am I being too sensitive?

Am I being too sensitive? A friend laughed out loud and told me that I picked a safe job (I am a teacher and it's a very challenging job even if I didn't have fluency issues) when I confided in her th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2021
1 points

1. Never ever finish her sentences. 2. Never make any weird face to listen her closely when she stutters. 3. Never bring up the topic of stuttering around her it's just soo uncomfortable, even in a ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsShame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2021
2 points

A very inspirational comment indeed! Thank you 🤗. The thing that I think ? Frightens ? me personally is the fact that due to me having an utterly shitty youth in the CPS system, my self esteem is al...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & MotivationStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2021
3 points

And also if someone is stuttering, don't ever make any weird face to listen him closely or anything. I've experienced this....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
6 points

Dude I covert stutter, and back when Captain America Civil War came out, a friend and I went to watch it. Then we went to the Wing Stop that was right next to the theater after the movie was over. I h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & Substitution