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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2018
2 points

When I stutter for the first time in front of someone, I will simply say, “Yes, I stutter” and move on. It has never been an issue. And I, too, have worked with people for years that never knew I s...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2018
1 points

Thanks for your reply. I deal with the public quite a lot and do block stutter with them, but I just muddle through. I'm more thinking of disclosing to my coworkers. I could easily laugh it off. I gu...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2018
2 points

>I feel like it would be weird to mention it now! Doesn't have to be. Like, you could stutter. Perhaps someone would notice and ask about it. You could say briefly "oh yeah, I stutter, but I've be...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2018
1 points

Most of the time when I tell someone it makes things so much more comfortable. Occasionally the person will look at me with pitty and talk to me like a child, I forgive them for being ignorant that st...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2018
5 points

I whole heartily agree. Hiding my stutter put so much stress on my shoulders, espically thinking about the reactions of others. Once I started telling people and making light of it, it becomes more ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2018
2 points

Nobody is going to look down on you for having a speech impediment. I personally make minimal effort to hide mine, at work or elsewhere (granted I do not have to deal with the public at my work). Th...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & CareerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2018
10 points

Although you're worried you might be looked down upon, there are actually studies done that show it has the opposite effect on people - they'll respect you more and think you're more confident! Check ...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & PrideValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterFeb 23, 2018
13 points

I'm scared to tell people at work I (block) stutter.

I'm scared to tell people at work I (block) stutter. First off I'm really grateful for this forum. I have read that it's better to tell people about your stutter than hide it. I have told a few peopl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2018
1 points

I find acknowledgement of one's disability often disarms and diffuses a lot of situations and comfortableness. I had a teacher in high school with Tourette syndrome and on Day 1 of class he explained ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2018
1 points

This is a piece of advice that I have heard somewhere before. On a blog post of a PWS, a man wrote the only thing he asks of the person who calls and informs him of the interview is for them to let th...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersAdvice Offered
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2018
1 points

I second the suggestion for self disclosure, even if it’s a way for you to practice self disclosure. You can let your professor know via email and tell them ahead of time that either you have a questi...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2018
5 points

Tell your professors about your stutter before hand. I only bonded with one professor my whole 4 years of college. And she was the only professor I bothered to tell about my stutter. Whatever class I ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2018
4 points

If you’re not ready to give up just yet, send a thank you note. Thank him for his time and let him know that your speech is not an accurate reflection of your intellect or ability. Then say what you w...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2018
3 points

Don't give up! I haven't had to interview in years because I've been with the same company but I think I would be upfront that I stutter and reiterate it's always strong around new people/environments...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2018
6 points

My stutter is mild and I haven't really been in your situation before so this might be dumb advice but have you ever considered telling them ahead of time so they're prepared? Maybe tell them after th...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
postr/StutterFeb 12, 2018
14 points

18 Year Old Stutterer (My Success Story!)

18 Year Old Stutterer (My Success Story!) Hey everybody, I'm an 18 year old girl and I just wanted to share my stuttering story. I have been stuttering since I could talk, it became noticeable when ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2018
2 points

Your experiences seem similar to most people who Stutter. You got this far, You'll definitely find a job. I suggest you disclose during the interview that you stutter. This will take the pressure off...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2018
1 points

Hey there. My college also required public speaking for my degree, and it was certainly a horrible experience while it was going on, but it also was a valuable learning experience. Just rehearse, prac...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
School & Academic LifePreparation & RehearsalDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2018
1 points

Hey, do you tell the new people you stutter? I know if you don't do that it can feel impossible. But for many people it is part of a way out of the hiding and avoidance and dread that you're talking...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2018
1 points

Thank you for your insight. Sounds like you are doing very well! That's awesome. Being open about that would probably help me too. I often tell myself to now introduce myself as a stutterer to all ne...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more