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commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
5 points

The longer I stutter the more I think that it is a mix of lack of confidence and too many bad habits. The chimp paradox is a book that talks about the conscious, subconscious and autopilot. I think ...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
1 points

I completely agree. I would rather stuttering not be associated with Joe Biden as he is declining mentally. Stuttering does not make someone forget where they are....

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
9 points

He’s not the best President imo, but I hate when people think he’s an idiot simply for his stutter not knowing that it is a stutter. I wish he talked about it more tho. It is inspiring seeing someone ...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
-1 points

I’m a stutterer. I’m really curious, has nobody watched any of Biden’s senate speeches? Or hell, even the VP debate in 2012: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yYcdSwbrErI The idea that this is a person w...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
1 points

I’ve had a better time working in social roles. Put yourself out there OP you have a stutter not a defect....

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
1 points

It's great that you found this group. Many people who stutter tend to think they are the only ones or just among a tiny fraction of the world but that's not the case. 1% of the world's population stu...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
-9 points

To each their own I guess, but I don’t find it encouraging at all. He reminds me way more of my non-stuttering 90 year old grandfather than he does of myself....

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
1 points

I don't disagree. If you are happy with a job where you don't have to talk much, by all means go for it! But if you are only doing something because you stutter and you don't think you're able to do w...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
2 points

>  It really hurts my soul to see how self-pitying this sub sometimes is. Agreed. And some want stuttering to be a disability and disclose it before a job interview. You wouldn't disclose your sexua...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
7 points

There’s nothing intrinsically wrong with settling for a basic job, most people do! The primary difference for a stutterer is that we come pre-equipped with an excuse to settle, whereas other people ha...

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postr/StutterMar 7, 2024
107 points

Props to Joe

Props to Joe Regardless of your political views…Joe Biden, who has a stammer, at 80+ just gave a speech on the world stage. I honestly don't know if I could give a 5min all-eyes-on speech to friends ...

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2024
1 points

You will be in the right field in speech pathology. You will be interacting with other people who stutter and besides your education and skills, other PWS will have your example. Seeing another perso...

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2024
2 points

You are a caring man. Your empathy for and acceptance of this child will be very valuable to his life. Yes, there is a duality that you are unsure if you should continue meeting with him because of y...

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2024
2 points

Yeah, l’ve never met any other females that stutter besides myself, but I personally know about 10 males...

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2024
2 points

Great analysis. It is important to see the trigger factor not only as negative but as a whole. Negative, positive or neutral are just labels. Negative emotions are percieve as negative because of th...

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2024
2 points

About to welcome my first kid into the world, and I am worried about my future daughter stuttering. For all this worry though, if she does stutter, my silver lining approach is to be a positive role m...

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2024
7 points

About to welcome my first kid into the world, and I am worried about my future daughter stuttering. For all this worry though, if she does stutter, my silver lining approach is to be a positive role m...

Parent & CaregiverIdentity & Disability
Early Concern & OnsetHome SupportIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 7, 2024
8 points

How do I make my mother understand that I do not stutter voluntarily

How do I make my mother understand that I do not stutter voluntarily Hi as the title says. For context I (24F) stutter since I began to talk, but now I manage to mask it so it's only light stutter unl...

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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
4 points

exactly. I try to "compensate" for my stuttering with perfectionism in everything I do. and like you said, everyone gives me attention and approval. At school everyone always waited for my presenta...

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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
5 points

See [this ](https://i.imgur.com/1wgPP6G.png)image link. Great comment! I agree that "fear" (as you pointed out) can be conditioned to a speech block-response (such as, fear to speak our name can caus...

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