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commentr/StutterAug 9, 2019
2 points

Well... force yourself. It'll be awkward for a while - rather a long while, in fact, since these are very ingrained habits - but over the years, some measure of skill and normalcy should surface. I'm...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2019
2 points

I do the same. I just try to force myself to at least glance at the person when I notice myself doing it. Something that's important to realise though, is that it's normal not to make constant eye c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2019
1 points

I think it's a hard step to complete without a milieu that furthers it. I've been lucky to be around nice people, where I could get used to the idea of stuttering without repercussion. Over time, this...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2019
1 points

>This is exactly the mindset I'm trying to cultivate lately. I'm a person who stutters. I've been one since I was a child. Why do I feel the need to hide it or feign perfection? As I get older, I'm...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. MaskingOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2019
7 points

I think there are a couple of aspects to unpack here. Allow me some lines text, if you please. :)   As I've been trying to say a lot in here, we never actually move from a "perfect sentence...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2019
1 points

Haha this sometimes happens to me, but I don't think it is because of the stutter....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2019
1 points

The thing is I never admitted to anyone that I stutter, the only people I admitted to are my parents and my partner. Took my parents years and years to accept me having a speech problem and give up fi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2019
1 points

You're tired and worn thin. It happens to everyone, regardless of stutter. The stutter is just another way for it to happen. It also sounds like your have a difficult advisor, which is another source ...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
School & Academic LifeAuthenticity vs. MaskingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2019
2 points

/u/sampiren \- this really strikes a chord with me. I'm 36M stuttered pretty severely when I was much younger, it is less now but it's definitely still a big struggle. I can related to wishing I coul...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Energy & Biological RhythmsOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2019
2 points

Honestly a phd is very psychologically draining. You are training to be an expert in a very focused area. I'm sure being a woman in a male dominated field, with English as a second language, and a stu...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
School & Academic LifeAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2019
3 points

What you've accomplished so far is damn great, you should be really proud of it. Take a break when you can and clear your mind with some hobbie. English is not my first language either, however I stu...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
School & Academic LifeAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2019
3 points

What you've accomplished so far is damn great, you should be really proud of it. Take a break when you can and clear your mind with some hobbie. English is not my first language either, however I stu...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
School & Academic LifeAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2019
3 points

This right here is the correct answer. Most people don't care if we stutter. We are our worst enemies because we hold ourselves back out of fear....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 1, 2019
16 points

Not necessarily. I'm not going to echo the commentators down below who say do it anyway, because I agree with them as someone who has dealt with not only stutter, but dysarthia and word blocking but ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 1, 2019
11 points

As a woman I can say definitely I should have leveled up way more by now. I am a small black immigrant to boot and the amount of shit I have to take is ridiculous. But compared to the shit my grandm...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkTherapy & Professional
Authenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & CareerTherapy Experiences+2 more
postr/StutterJul 27, 2019
42 points

Does anyone else have this moment when ur alone?

Does anyone else have this moment when ur alone? it seems like the only time i feel "Normal" is when i dont talk.. like when im talking im a different person and thats not who i am, but when im alone ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Experiential AssociationSituational VariabilityAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterJul 27, 2019
7 points

Talking while focusing.

Talking while focusing. When i was 17 i got into a period of depression and during that time i used to search in the internet for solutions for my stutter, and during that time i passed by a channel c...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2019
1 points

Well, you stutter. So do I. But I don't hide it. There's simply no reason to. People have all sorts of traits - some of them are convenient, some are less convenient, and some are outright hindrances....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2019
1 points

Do note I wrote 'tantamount' just before that part of the sentence. My presumptuousness is heavily modified by that. - At any rate, in the case you're making, I do believe we have a bit of a conundr...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2019
2 points

> trying my hardest to hide it That's a bummer. You shouldn't have to hide anything. That's putting undue strain on top of something that's already taxing......

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking