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commentr/StutterJun 28, 2018
1 points

That’s one way 😋 The more suave way: I tend to stutter when I get nervous. Meeting you is definitely one of those times because I don’t want to screw it up. ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2018
2 points

What really makes them laugh is when they ask why and I tell them. My mom got really lonely one night and used a vibrater when she was pregnant with me. The look on their face is priceless ...

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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2018
5 points

Man this post is just godtier haha I started lifting/bulking 9 weeks ago and it's been going great, but owning my stammer has been crucial to staying confident. I remember telling my girlfriend just ...

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commentr/StutterJun 18, 2018
1 points

My psychiatrist told me to "vaccinate" a group of people (such as a class) by stuttering the first time you meet them, so they already know you stutter and will be mindful in the future when you do! ...

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commentr/StutterJun 2, 2018
3 points

Maybe your stutter is a lot worse than mine, but I’ve never really had any issues with jobs because of it. I used to go for jobs that don’t really require speaking when I was younger (painter, various...

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commentr/StutterJun 2, 2018
1 points

If she cares about you she cares about your stutter. Stuttering is a part of you that you can't really hide. I know it sounds frightening but I think you should talk to her about your stuttering. Try ...

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2018
2 points

I've never heard of those acronyms. Like people have talked about already in this thread, I do not use the word "stutterer." I say I'm a person who stutters because my stutter does not define who I am...

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2018
2 points

Its about context, in our NSA emails we use PWS. People Who Stutter or Person Who Stutters. Personally I do not say I am a stutterer, I say that I am a person who Stutters....

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2018
1 points

I appreciate where you’re covering from. You saying “i stutter” is definitely something i do, but that’s our choice. When talking about others i do it person first (ex person who stutters). I think th...

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2018
8 points

I've never been a big fan of the initialisms myself. I respect that people prefer them, and if someone wants me to use them in conversation with them, sure, I will. They just don't naturally fit into ...

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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2018
3 points

> Something I've recently started doing in the last year or so is flat-out telling someone (be it on the phone, in person, on online dating profiles, whatever) that I stutter. Maddeningly enough, f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling OthersMindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2018
3 points

No problem! Something I've recently started doing in the last year or so is flat-out *telling* someone (be it on the phone, in person, on online dating profiles, whatever) that I stutter. Maddeningly...

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commentr/StutterMay 26, 2018
1 points

I do that all the time, especially job interviews. It's easier to address it right away. Otherwise people tend to think I'm a moron. Some do anyway, but I can't control that...

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commentr/StutterMay 26, 2018
1 points

[I've made a post](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/8kkw7j/my_strategy_ive_been_using_for_quite_some_time/) before about this a week ago and I think you should read it! tldr: I really like b...

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commentr/StutterMay 26, 2018
1 points

I do that like 50% of the time and I really feel like it does help. I just feel like sometimes I can't really say it on certain occasions, because it would feel out of place....

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commentr/StutterMay 26, 2018
1 points

I don't generally offer it pre-emptively, but I am very open about it. Honestly, it short circuits some of my anxiety. If you can grow to be comfortable discussing it, it can help to keep the great a...

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commentr/StutterMay 26, 2018
1 points

You should try it out! Definitely experimenting with self-advertisement is a good thing to do. I usually do not self-advertise unless the person asks me about it, but I know people that do and they ...

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commentr/StutterMay 26, 2018
2 points

Oh, yeah, I've done similar things sometimes. I think I said something like "I stutter, so if I make some weird sounds now and then, that's why" at one point. Doesn't need to be more than that - but i...

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commentr/StutterMay 26, 2018
2 points

What exactly do you have in mind? I certainly don't mind informing people that I stutter, in case there's an occasion for it....

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postr/StutterMay 26, 2018
6 points

Has anyone tried being up front about your stutter?

Has anyone tried being up front about your stutter? [deleted]...

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