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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
0 points

THIS! I’ve always had a stutter but I never let it bother me. I’ve known perfectly fluent people who were far less comfortable with public speaking than I was. I still stutter all the time when public...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
0 points

I work at a supermarket as a cashier, just do it man. Speaking to people is good practice and customers are generally really nice in general and about my stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
0 points

Yah there is definitely nuance there. I was fortunate to have speech therapy when I was younger that helped a lot. More so in knowing or “feeling” when I’m about to stutter and some techniques to try ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
1 points

I agree! Before I go out I always try to say Bye Mom or Bye Dad, but no matter how much I tried I couldn’t say the B word first. So now I say Dad bye mom bye. To other people it must be unnoticeable b...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
1 points

Yeah, I know that feeling of finally getting it out when you're too far away all too well 😂😂. Getting it out is at least a victory anyway in my eyes (even if it is too far away or too late 😂)....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
1 points

Thanks for the advice, I usually nod my head to people because it's common in British culture, but today was weird because I got so caught up trying to say thank you that I couldn't think about anythi...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
1 points

I've never thought of the mouthing technique before. Thanks for the advice. Stuttering allows all of us to become very crafty at creating techniques to try and manage it. It's something that fluent sp...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
4 points

Yeah, I usually say Cheers before thank you if I feel a block coming on, but for whatever reason, I lost my composure and started over thinking today....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
3 points

Thanks, I do the same thing on the bus all the time as well 😂😂. I feel like getting it out at all is at least a victory in my books....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
2 points

This happens to me pretty often and I feel bad. I still force out the "Thank you!", even if they're already 10 feet away, haha....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
1 points

I HATE this. I usually just do a head nod or smile to show my appreciation. I find it very difficult to off-the-cuff say thank you or other quick greetings if I happen to pass by someone I know cros...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
5 points

This is me on the bus. But I'm okay if I say 'ta' first. So I do the very British 'ta. Cheers. Thank you!'...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
5 points

What I do in these situations is give them a bright smile and mouth a thank you. So I don’t actually say it. Most people will assume you’re shy or lost your voice!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
3 points

Similar to another comment, I just typically smile, nod, wave, etc - for all the person knows, you're mute! They don't know you! Maybe think of it that way? I might be able to get it out, but I just ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
15 points

Lol yeah this me on the bus. I've been doing better but sometimes I can't manage to say thanks until I step off. If i feel like I can't say it i usually just smile and wave. I feel like thats a good a...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterAug 28, 2024
58 points

I couldn't say thank you

I couldn't say thank you Someone went out of their way to hold the door open for me today and I couldn't say thank you. I managed to finally push it out after 5-10 seconds after the guy was walking a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
3 points

You’ll always have a stutter, but you can learn new habits to make it nearly undetectable to listeners, and so you can say what you want, how you want, and when you want. Check out my profile for a ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterAug 28, 2024
11 points

how do you overcome your stutter?

how do you overcome your stutter? I know that stutter is incurable. So I just accepted that I can never be the person I wanted to be so I might as well just deal with it. In a few months, I wish to g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
postr/StutterAug 27, 2024
15 points

Less ashamed of stuttering but the shame has returned (vent)

Less ashamed of stuttering but the shame has returned (vent) I (M-22) started stuttering ever since I was in school in 1st grade. I went to therapy all my life from 1st grade to 12th grade on an IEP (...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2024
6 points

Unfortunately stuttering cannot be fixed, but u can practice techniques to help reduce the frequency of it. Some people report that it gets less as they get older but not everyone has that luck...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation