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postr/StutterOct 14, 2024
16 points

Stuttering and social anxiety is ruining my teen years.

Stuttering and social anxiety is ruining my teen years. Sometimes the teachers call on me and I end up stuttering and it fucking sucks when I hear laughter, sometimes I get anxiety that I’m am about t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2024
13 points

Very impressive. So I assume your blocking diminished as your fear decreased over those 4 months? What is it like now to think about stuttering? Is there any residual shame/fear left? Are you ever afr...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2024
1 points

I was talking out-loud to myself by physically making sounds out my mouth. I don’t do an inner-monologue either, to me it feels like I’m ’cheating’. I’d rather not even formate a sentence at all when ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 14, 2024
65 points

Even regular kids who don't stutter get anxiety in this situation 😒

Even regular kids who don't stutter get anxiety in this situation 😒 ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2024
3 points

I was talking out-loud to myself by physically making sounds out my mouth. I don’t do an inner-monologue either, to me it feels like I’m ’cheating’. I’d rather not even formate a sentence at all. When...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2024
2 points

Well, saying this thing in front of other people kinda rude in my opinion, since when you ask that question you basically talk about mental health, and that's private stuff, but I guess he wasn't real...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2024
10 points

Hey man, I also have a pretty severe stutter (blocks). I feel like I do better in group situations where I can bounce off multiple people; it helps ease some of the anxiety. I personally enjoy raves, ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging+1 more
postr/StutterOct 13, 2024
14 points

How should I get out and meet friends as a stutterer?

How should I get out and meet friends as a stutterer? So I (m20) Have stuttered ever since I was like 7 and it's usually pretty moderate, Sometimes it can be severe but The past couple of years I have...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2024
1 points

Absolutely not and I would argue the opposite using the examples you gave. Your professors may have been judging your presentation by the content and not the delivery which is fair. If they were in fa...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2024
3 points

Thank you! Truth be told, I’m very hesitant about the idea of fundamentally accepting. I’ve always accepted for the sake of getting comfortable with it, which can hopefully lead to less stress thus mo...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2024
7 points

Not really. I do have an IEP so I don’t have to present in front of the class but I did have to privately with a teacher or video record my self presenting. But besides that, I found it hard to make ...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeStigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2024
2 points

Awareness is the key. You have to start becoming aware of when you’re overthinking, or when you’re stressed out about other people judging you. Do not put any positive or negative connotation to it, j...

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Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 13, 2024
9 points

[23/F] My crush asked me why I’m so quiet and I’m kind of upset about it

[23/F] My crush asked me why I’m so quiet and I’m kind of upset about it Don't get me wrong, 9 times out of 10, people don't have any bad intentions when asking that. It's just that when I was younge...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2024
2 points

Before pills, there may be other things you can try. For me it was to cut off and walk away from that which gave me some of the worst anxiety. It is not to avoid stuttering situations or anything bu...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2024
8 points

Due to anxiety lately my stutter has been the worst it’s been in as long as I can remember. But……you and I are not the only ones. Keep pushing forward. Whenever I feel low I always watch the Tom Hanks...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2024
1 points

Thank you for writing this! In a world where everyone is trying to fix their stutter, reading your post was such a breather and provided a lot of clarity to my own thoughts about stuttering. I often g...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessEmployment & Career
postr/StutterOct 12, 2024
9 points

Anxiety pills

Anxiety pills I don't usually stutter when I am talking or reciting anything. I have problem when answering any questions or to give quick response. It is because of anxiety and fear. So will any anxi...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2024
2 points

You don’t need years of a dysfluency degree to know what a stutter is, it’s one of the most common disabilities in pop culture. Idk, you’re right that there’s people out there who are genuinely carin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2024
1 points

My manager told me, you are overthinking about this. It’s not a big deal at all. Don’t worry about it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 12, 2024
8 points

Seem mean or mad

Seem mean or mad Has anyone ever been told , "are you ok" . I have a mild stutter and I'd been asked multiple times if I'm in a good mood, i rarely talk in work meetings. I don't know if having a stut...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception