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commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
21 points

Your feelings are completely valid. I don't think there's anything more painful than getting mocked by a parent for something they already causes so much shame. I'm sorry that happened. I will say he...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterSep 7, 2022
66 points

My dad mocked my stutter and a huge fight broke down

My dad mocked my stutter and a huge fight broke down Hey Reddit, I don’t have anyone to talk to now about this and I thought I would calm down before typing this. Long story short, yesterday we had a ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
2 points

I will actually kill somebody If they try that shit on me Its a lot of hurt Inside me and that's going to set me off ain't nobody about to mock, make fun of what I can't control...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
2 points

I don’t think it’s either. I think he forgets it’s a trauma point and repeats it because it’s interesting/different, like you might forget someone’s pronouns. Not to equate trans rights too strongly...

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Stigma & BullyingFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
2 points

I honestly think it’s more “remix vibes.” He hears it and unthinkingly copies it, not realizing how frustrating it is. I mean he DOES know, since I’ve told him multiple times 🙄...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
1 points

If he’s doing it intentionally then you should report him, this happened to me at my old job and it only got worse, other managers would join in and I felt forced to leave, it’s discrimination and it’...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Stigma & BullyingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
3 points

It is absolutely unbelievable that your boss continues to mirror your stutter after you have made it clear that its not something you can control and makes you uncomfortable. The fact that you said "t...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Stigma & BullyingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2022
2 points

Understanding a stutter and being respectful of another human are two separate things. Fluency would be nice but if OP can’t get there (as none of us will since stuttering is permanent), they need not...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2022
2 points

Going to ignore the gaslighting comments above from people who have accepted that they will be treated poorly. NEVER allow anyone to minimize you. We wouldn’t mock someone for something they were born...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & BullyingPreparation & Rehearsal
postr/StutterSep 5, 2022
22 points

My manager can’t seem to help mirroring my stutter

My manager can’t seem to help mirroring my stutter He’s nice and I genuinely like him. The first few times it happened, I very clearly stated it was something I couldn’t control and he apologized imme...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2022
2 points

Yeah, for the longest time I pretended I really enjoyed college, when really I didn't have many friends and struggled socially, not to mention the bullying....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2022
1 points

Unfortunately some people are extremely rude and uneducated. Don’t worry about them . They’re are good people out there trust me, and if someone is making fun of you that’s just a projection of their ...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2022
14 points

One time in my high school history class my teacher insisted on asking me a question pertaining to a US state and when I stuttered on the state’s name, two girls snickered and every other student was ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2022
1 points

I agree. Most of us are devilizing stuttering because society is ignorant of what it actually is and actually I don't think they are purposedly offensive to PWS, instead they are just astonished and ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2022
3 points

Stutterers have loads of abnormalities in their brains and various deficits related to that. Frankly, propagating this social anxiety myth only hurts us by encouraging morons who think that we are a j...

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Neurological & BrainAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2022
3 points

I get what you're trying to convey here but not all disabilities are treated equally. Making fun of those with speech impairments is still socially acceptable to some degree than other disabilities li...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Stigma & BullyingListener ReactionsBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2022
5 points

Yes, you will be treated better in your fluent days. If you have ever experienced weight fluctuations, you have also been treated better in your thinner days than in your chubbier days. If you have ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2022
1 points

My problem with stutter jokes is that they're so goddamn goofy and unfunny, that makes me more salty than the fact they make joke about us tbh....

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Humor & Community ToneStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2022
2 points

i feel that. my sister isn’t the nicest person, she knows i can’t help my speech but she’ll still sometimes tell me “for fucks sake alfie just spit it out”. this has resulted in my avoiding my sister ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
4 points

This disability is incessant and more overt than others, which bodes poorly for us. On the bright side, having a stutter allows you to ascertain who’s a piece of shit and who’s not. A lot of peopl...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying