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postr/StutterNov 7, 2019
27 points

I stepped out of my comfort zone today

I stepped out of my comfort zone today Today I have stepped out of my comfort zone by joing the MUN and I did my opening statement with the minimum stuttering while talking....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2019
2 points

Totally. We need to be honest about who we are. Fooling people, or muzzling ourself, all the time is no way to live....

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2019
6 points

First and foremost, this is a chance for you to open the eyes of someone who’s obviously ignorant. I appreciate that you’re trying to teach her. I’m reading comments saying that they would dump her im...

Coping & AdvocacyCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesPersonal StoriesAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2019
6 points

I've been slowly learning this lesson myself, it's tough sometimes but so much more liberating than having to constantly put on an act...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift
postr/StutterNov 2, 2019
14 points

Be yourself

Be yourself In my opinion it is much better (and simpler) to just say what you want to say and stutter through it, than to be some person you’re not, eating food you don’t want to eat, avoiding many p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+2 more
postr/StutterNov 1, 2019
21 points

Tips, Techniques, and My Experience

Tips, Techniques, and My Experience As a life-long stutterer, it's truly hard to describe the relief to find this subreddit. When I saw it online, my first thought was "wow there's a subreddit for eve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentExperiential Association+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2019
1 points

ahh got it. yeah sounds like having an open conversation about it might really help. will try it out. thanks!...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2019
2 points

hmm good follow-up question ... i didn't mean to ask how she feels about it. i don't really ask people their opinion or what they think of it because it feels sensitive to me and i can't really help ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2019
1 points

you mean openly ask her how she feels about my stutter? cuz i don't try to hide it or anything...i'm usually very open about my speech. and if i were to ask her how she actually felt, not sure how tha...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2019
5 points

yeah, i totally had similar stuff happen from graduate school to the present. it may help to discuss this openly with her. i found that once i told people what was going on things didn't feel as weird...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 31, 2019
44 points

We ain't got nothin to hide

We ain't got nothin to hide "... you just keep on walkin' 'cause you me and sister ain't got nothin' to hide." -- Scatman John Adult stutterer here who had a great presentation at work. Practiced eve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2019
2 points

I can't upvote this enough, or love this guy enough for having the guts to make this into a video. In a former life, I had a phone job as a customer service rep. As cake as it was compared to my ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2019
2 points

Thanks for sharing! I have figured out this technique as well, but always forget to use it in daily life. That, and I feel so inauthentic over pronouncing all my words, but it's a good technique....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 29, 2019
9 points

Gonna try stand up.

Gonna try stand up. The bar I'm a regular at is having a open mic night. Each person has 5 mins. I'm a guy who has made lots jokes about and my stutter and I'm very open about it so I'm not really ner...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesHumor & Community ToneAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2019
3 points

You are going to need a lot of luck. Luckily, I know how to get lucky; It's through practice. The only way to get good at phone interviews is to practice. Practice before the interview. Imagine what...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2019
3 points

You have to push yourself out of your comfort zone enough to get the confidence, takes time and effort but totally worth it...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2019
1 points

There’s lots of things you can try. Techniques that some people find helpful are: prolonged speech (I find this helps with my blocking), soft contacts and easy onsets. Some people also find self-adve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2019
1 points

i’ve always kinda liked the idea of having my sentences finished or people guessing words when im stuck. rather than feeling defeated i feel relieved, somewhat like a helping hand is reaching for me. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterOct 23, 2019
50 points

It’s amazing what a couple years will do

It’s amazing what a couple years will do I’m a 17 year old male. About 2 years ago, I was a stuttering fool. I would stay in my dark room, and feel sorry for myself. It was a very depressing time. F...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2019
3 points

I understand where you’re coming from man, however no one knows exactly what you go through but you. You have your own experiences and other people have theirs. The closest any other person can get to...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more