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commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
2 points

If I was making a post about this, the only thing I'll change in your post is the age from 22 to 21. Your post pretty much describes me. I don't even bother anymore with conversations...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
3 points

That’s certainly possible. I just checked and I have over 12,000 notes on my phone app, even though I often delete things I write down. And it’s all communication related stuff. I feel like I’m in to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
2 points

I immediately tell people I stutter when we interact and it doesn’t take much pressure off for me. I still feel like a ‘retard’ all the time for lack of a better term. It’s not even that people are ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterMay 24, 2022
45 points

When you guys are ordering food , do you guys only order those food which you think you can say without stuttering?

When you guys are ordering food , do you guys only order those food which you think you can say without stuttering? Just had this thought, when I order food I only tend to order the ones which I think...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Quality of LifeHiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2022
1 points

Same. It has to do with not wanting to be noticed and stuttering being a form of defence mechanism to hide or block yourself out. Impersonation is pretty much you not being yourself which you don’t mi...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMay 23, 2022
11 points

Stop saying we have to “deal” with our stutter

Stop saying we have to “deal” with our stutter We shouldn’t have to deal with something that effects our mental health tremendously and sometimes even physically hurts our jaw or muscles. I’m 16 and I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSuicidal Ideation & High Distress+2 more
postr/StutterMay 23, 2022
45 points

Only a stutter is holding me back

Only a stutter is holding me back I'm in the process of trying to join the Air Force. I've done everything up to this point perfectly, eligible age, passed the physical, no criminal or drug history, a...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Access & RightsHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMay 22, 2022
33 points

I'd like to share a story

I'd like to share a story I'd like to share an experience from when I was on a stammering/stuttering course in Scotland in Autumn 2003. I was 11 and there was a mix of adults and children from all ove...

Community & SupportAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Personal StoriesHiding & ConcealmentPhysical Tension
postr/StutterMay 21, 2022
19 points

I can’t say my own name at times

I can’t say my own name at times I find it so frustrating that at times I’m not even able to say my own name . Normally I make up a fake name when I get asked and it’s just so embarrassing especially ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterMay 20, 2022
11 points

Stuttering

Stuttering I’ve stuttered for as long as I can remember and there’s cycles of when I’m ok with my stutter but as a 22 year old, it’s very difficult for me to be ok with it. I feel like it holds me bac...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2022
3 points

From what you’ve saying, I don’t think that anyone at your work knows that you stutter. I know you must feel like that is maybe embarrassing, but why don’t you disclose ? You can say after introducing...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterMay 20, 2022
7 points

Ups and downs of stuttering

Ups and downs of stuttering This is my first post on this subreddit. Lately I've been really struggling with my stutter. For some background, I'm a recent(ish) college graduate who was been working as...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
postr/StutterMay 19, 2022
12 points

Anyone else struggle with ordering food but is completely fine elsewhere?

Anyone else struggle with ordering food but is completely fine elsewhere? Like, I can talk with strangers and everything but something about ordering food gets me all tense. Even on my way to the coun...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2022
2 points

The not avoiding part is tough, as I've been avoiding it all my life so barely anyone knows that I stutter, not even my closest friends. So just starting to stutter openly out of nowhere would be awkw...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2022
2 points

Ah, I have told strangers I Stutter but most of the time ide rather not, I assume it's just my anxiety but idk, I dont Stutter nearly as bad as I used to tho so I don't have this problem much (I also ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2022
6 points

I would do this but for some reason I'm really embarrassed to say I have a Stutter to the point where ide rather let them sit there, confused, than explain what's going on...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2022
2 points

This! Especially when they don't know I'm a stutterer as I'm usually able to hide it, except for my name.....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2022
2 points

I usually don’t tell people, and don’t plan to unless directly asked. That being said though, I haven’t had anyone ask or even bring it up yet. But I assume they definitely can tell, because when I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMay 18, 2022
15 points

Speech therapy advice

Speech therapy advice Hi all. My brother has a moderate/severe stutter since his birth, we think due to being born at 24 weeks. My parents REFUSED to get him help when he was younger, now he’s 28 and ...

Therapy & ProfessionalCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyAdvice RequestsHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2022
2 points

This is very common amongst us stutterers. Names are always hard bc there is no substitute. What I have learned is to self-disclose that you stutter and to just try to stutter openly. Unfortunately av...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment