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Stutter/server job

Stutter/server job Hi! I have about a total of 5 years of customer service experience/ team leadership experience, which you think would be more than enough to qualify me for a server job, but for som...

Talking to girls

Talking to girls Is it okay to try to pursue a relationship with a girl without talking to her irl? Is that just setting myself up for failure? I'm really friendly over email, but in person I avoid h...

I'm going through the same thing. My stutter has gotten so worse these past few years that I can't talk to anyone now. I've locked myself in. Cant even talk to family at this point and several therapi...

Stutter and jobs

Stutter and jobs I'm getting a summer job soon and it's gonna be my first real job so I'm very nervous about it. It’s a fear of mine to talk to new people because of my stutter, I just wanted to get t...

Realization

Realization I’m 18 and just got a job where communication is the number one factor. And I realized how bad my stutter effects me. Whenever I’m talking with customers, I just pause for no reason to sto...

not an elevator pitch…

not an elevator pitch… Words that were beautiful and elegant and meaningful in my brain Now feel trapped inside like a snow globe A distorted translation of their initial meaning when you try to tak...

Im from Pakistan too. So the thing is i started stuttering in my second year of inter which I dont find any reason as my therapist asks if is there an event happened. So at start it was so hard to cop...

I avoid eye contact with people anyway (not related to having a stutter, just an old habit), but I have noticed some people just stare directly at my shoes if I'm stuttering for some reason. And yeah,...

do you disclose that you stutter when you first meet people?

do you disclose that you stutter when you first meet people? hello all, i’ve recently been reflecting disclosing my stutter whenever i meet new people or am in new situations/environments. it is more ...

Yes so true! I think like another commenter said it’s their way of showing their not “affected” by your stuttering and aren’t going to closely observe you while you do it. I notice I don’t make eye co...

For me it's kind of a catch 22. I kind of like to mumble because then I can leave out hard sounds without it being as obvious, plus speaking in a sort of low monotone helps me stutter a little less to...

I knew someone in college who had a worse stutter than I did, but he was confident, extroverted, warm, and had some leadership qualities. I worked on hiding my stutter, but he embraced it and just wou...

I keep asking the same fucking question in subrettits where girs guve advice to guys but nobody responds to me!

I keep asking the same fucking question in subrettits where girs guve advice to guys but nobody responds to me! I hate when people ghost me irl or online. I keep asking if stuttering is unattractive a...

Rough Interview

Rough Interview I had a rough day today and wanted to vent on here. I applied for a role I am overqualified for and even studied the role and company inside out before going in. I explained at the beg...

I’m upset

I’m upset I know the logic here isn’t totally flawed but I don’t think it is… I’m a (27m) with no major health conditions in my family or with myself. I am fairly in shape, I don’t drink a lot, I do...

I stutter when I'm around people but don't at all when im alone... i'm confused

I stutter when I'm around people but don't at all when im alone... i'm confused Ive had a stutter since I could talk and its been really had to do deal with in a social setting. However I have also be...

Lee’s Speech Anxiety to beat stuttering

Lee’s Speech Anxiety to beat stuttering Hi all. I love this community and hope we all get to our goal soon. A member of this community reached out to me about this book titled Speech Anxiety written b...

My journey as a stuttering CEO

My journey as a stuttering CEO Hello community, today I would like to lament a little of my sorrow. Like you, I stutter. I would describe myself as a moderate to severe stutterer. There is no sentenc...

Not always, but it is a huge deciding factor yes. I also tend to order anything that will require the least amount of follow-up questions. it depends of course a lot on the day I'm having. Some days I...

Man, reading this has encouraged me to try to get away from writing things down so much. I get what you mean about it being so much less embarrassing than stuttering really badly in front of people, s...