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postr/StutterSep 16, 2024
300 points

If this gets 40 upvotes am doing the presentation

If this gets 40 upvotes am doing the presentation Tired of skipping the presentations every time. 50 upvotes hugging the teacher after the presentation 70 kissing her on the forehead after the pres...

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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
0 points

Not related to the question, but The greatest favour you'll do to yourself is practicing and getting rid/reducing the stutter. Don't worry about jobs right now, you'll get plenty of them. You need to...

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commentr/stutteringSep 16, 2024
1 points

Yeah it feels like it mostly depends on practice. Because it’s killing me on my job. Possibly joining a community idk...

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commentr/stutteringSep 16, 2024
1 points

i have trouble with words like 'eight' which start with that particular sound. might voice muscles clench up and am fine when alone. talking on phone or at a desk counter is tough. i think it's anxiet...

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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
2 points

If you know want you want to say, have a weird tension in your core, and no words come out, You are describing a classic unwanted valsalva maneuver, which is happening because of fear. It’s very like...

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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
2 points

Fuck yes, Spanish is my first language and I stutter like a motherfucker in that while I spent all my stats on English and got better at that lol. I stutter less in Spanish, but I think it's due to la...

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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
1 points

That's hot. Let's talk if you have time. My discord is "danielchokeable" if you wanna talk about it my fellow asshat. But in case you don't add me, have you tried literally saying shit in a mocking to...

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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2024
1 points

Zoom. Slowing down never worked for me. I wanted to speak normally so I shit-talked my way to success and looked and felt completely retarded countless times. You get used to it and start to actually ...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
2 points

edit from the bottom: fuck, I rambled sorry. But yeah, just keep working at it. Play video games with friends or nobodies, take on customer facing work, literally talk to random people you mee, fuckin...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
1 points

wot. Just sing or copy a state of mind you don't stutter in and try to incorporate it into your normal speaking so your body can "remember" how to not crack as often. I kind of get what you mean but I...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
-3 points

You're fucked, but either way go for whatever. My first job was at Whataburger and the store manager put me on front cashier and drive-thru always lol. Basically, I talked to everyone always and yeah,...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
0 points

If you are referring to stuttering that impacts a persons life negatively, It’s not that common, and the cause is known. You learned to feel bad about your repetitions, and in an attempt to stop t...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
0 points

I'm 48 and have stuttered my entire life. I think I've only met 2 people my entire life who also stutter. Anyone else who told me they used to stutter, did so only as children and was probably a phase...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
1 points

My grandparents taught me German growing up. I still stutter speaking english or german it really doesn't affect much...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
1 points

I only speak English but when I talk in different accents my sttuer goes away. Thought about learning another language to see if I still would....

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
1 points

I am 16 year old. I do exactly what you are doing. i have a schoolfellow which is also a stutter. He have one quality that i love which is that he always use words that normal people (non-stutters) u...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
2 points

I agree with faking one’s confidence and seeing oneself as superior (or at least not inferior) for the sake of easing the anxiety. It explains why we have the hardest time with authority figures. We s...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
1 points

For me, my best advice is always to give space, be patient, and give a little grace. Stuttering is so individualistic, and each journey is as different as a snowflake. No two people who stutter are t...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
1 points

Może w twoim przypadku dobrze by było znaleźć powód dlaczego zaczęłaś się jąkać? 7 miesięcy to tak na prawdę niedawny „problem”, może warto by się dowiedzieć skąd on się wziął. Ogólnie to jak ktoś za...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2024
1 points

Mam nadzieję, że to nie dziwne, ale aż mi się miło zrobiło jak zobaczyłam tutaj kogoś, kto też mówi po Polsku!! Ciekawe jest to, że jąkasz się (czy tylko ja nienawidzę tego słowa po polsku?) we wszys...

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