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postr/StutterNov 6, 2024
22 points

Why girls are freaking out when they see a boy stuttering ?

Why girls are freaking out when they see a boy stuttering ? At first, when they don't know about the problem, they stay comfortable around me. When they get to know about it, they freak out and stop b...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterNov 6, 2024
7 points

Am I a Stutterer or Not ??

Am I a Stutterer or Not ?? I will try to keep it short but I think its worth reading to make a judgement or anyone who can help. I was a brilliant child in my school, who loved to read aloud in class ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnticipating Stuttering+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
1 points

I’ve been taking it for a while now guys. I guess I can say it’s working. I don’t feel as anxious anymore. Like it just feels easier to just talk, regardless if I stutter or not. I have ocd too. So I ...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & SubstancesCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelpful Med OutcomesStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterNov 6, 2024
44 points

I will face my deepest fear friday

I will face my deepest fear friday Guys , i have to present of folder of a patient in the staff of Doctors ! I know it will be so f*** terrifying but I’m doing it , i will say to them that i my have s...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & RehearsalSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterNov 6, 2024
26 points

I hate my stutter.

I hate my stutter. Today me and my friends played a game where we named anime one by one in a circle and the person that can’t say an anime loses. I tried so hard to say the names but my stutter jus...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2024
1 points

I lurk here often and this one got me teary eyed. Since 2020 my childhood stutter came back like it was part 2 of the movie IT. I've been having blocks with this same issue. My name or any kind of per...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2024
1 points

I was nervous at your age too. Remember that you're way harsher on yourself than anybody else. Honestly, most people could give 2 shits if you stutter or not and those that do, F them bud. Those pe...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2024
1 points

I’m 24M, and let’s just say I’m not hard on the eyes.  Girls always hit me up with compliments, but it’s all kinda moot.  I can’t even talk to a girl I’m into on the street, because I know I’m gonna s...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2024
2 points

One syllable words like that has always been easy for me. However I use to stutter saying sprite my favorite soda 😂. I think what helped me overcome that word is just saying it slowly and more import...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2024
2 points

I kind of know what you mean. I had won this competition in college and I skipped the event as I’d have to go on stage and recite the story that had won me the prize. In retrospect, I believe the exp...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
postr/StutterNov 5, 2024
6 points

Being an MC for an event. I’m so stressed and depressed.

Being an MC for an event. I’m so stressed and depressed. I’ve been chosen to be MC for an event. We had a rehearsal and it went terribly wrong. I feel ashamed of myself. I don’t think anyone knows I s...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2024
3 points

Calming my mind, deep and slow breaths. Anxiety increases my tension. I make sure no one is around me because that decreases anxiety as well. Sometimes what I am saying makes the person upset so that ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2024
1 points

I have the same experience. I don't stutter in public settings, but it increases exponentially in one-on-one settings. Sounds counterintuitive, but I think it might be because I don't feel as self-con...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Audience Scale & Group SizeAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterNov 4, 2024
0 points

My best friend is more obsessed with me having my first kiss than I am

My best friend is more obsessed with me having my first kiss than I am I’m 23, and to her knowledge, I’ve never kissed a boy. She had her first kiss at 21, lost her virginity at 22. When she first to...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterNov 4, 2024
0 points

Is it possible for a guy to genuinely like you but never reach out to you?

Is it possible for a guy to genuinely like you but never reach out to you? I’m in some dire need of guy advice. My crush liked me, but it was very obvious that he was shy talking to me. For example, o...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
1 points

Is the main strength of the program that it reduces anxiety and therefore helps you lead a happier life, or is goal more to reduce anxiety to help you stutter less? What's the focus?...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
2 points

oh very much ,there was a girl i had a crush on in my high school,the only time we talked was during our exam when she asked what set my question paper was(as it would be possible to cheat if we had s...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterNov 3, 2024
19 points

What to do when strangers mock your stuttering

What to do when strangers mock your stuttering I am 16M, 2 month ago i was playing football in the nearby field and then some other dude came to the same field and asked me if they can join me and i ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2024
1 points

Cool. Since last 3-4 years, I have learned more about it: I think it's more like a PTSD+anxiety like disorder. Because whenever we stutter, subconsciously, past memories trigger the anxiety, causing...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2024
1 points

I personally don't have stuttering and hence can't really feel you, but I know of a guy, Finnish fellow, to whom I once asked about his preferrence of English over his mother tongue for streaming. He ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment