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commentr/StutterDec 29, 2022
5 points

I live in Malaysia. People here understands it and quite accepting. But I still feel the school didn't do anything to help stuttering children, or maybe it's just my family refuse to take me to therap...

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commentr/StutterDec 29, 2022
4 points

I'm guessing things are quite different depending on each country. How about in your country? Do you think people are accepting toward people who stutter where you live?...

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commentr/StutterDec 29, 2022
4 points

Hi, I stutter (24m) and I’m currently in college and went through this. Tbh I just stuttered and said my name, I didn’t even disclose that I stutter bc honestly they could already tell hahahaha. No on...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersStigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2022
3 points

Yeah it seems easier nowadays. I don't understand how kids got away with abusing handicapped people in schools and even the teachers didn't seem to care enough to try to do anything....

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2022
2 points

I have found that students in schools nowadays are a bit more “woke”, at least from my experience working in the U.S. public schools. I too remember being laughed at when in middle school which was…w...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterDec 23, 2022
8 points

Awkward when family members bring up someone else who stutters?

Awkward when family members bring up someone else who stutters? So yesterday my mom was looking up Sam L Jackson (I’m not sure what caused her to do so). My dad was in the room as well. Anyways, I g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2022
1 points

>Is there one of them who is kinder than others? Definitely, there are some. But even though they are kind, I can see them keeping more & more distance from me with time. > Hopefully a wom...

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Family Support & ConflictStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2022
1 points

I also don't talk about my stuttering to anyone too, my family is not supportive of my stuttering and I'm generally uncomfortable with the topic of it. Because yeah, it is embarrassing. However, thes...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2022
2 points

Is it possible for you to go to a different company? If you do, maybe stating from day 1 that you have an speech impediment would help people to be more aware about how they treat you. It would also h...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2022
2 points

They just thought i was trying to "take advantage" of my stutter so told me to either give a presentation or get 0. Had to work hard to get a good grade to balance this out....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2022
7 points

Even though they came from a prestigious work and school background as you said, they're there working with you in the end. Which must mean you're pretty darn smart and capable of the job, and you don...

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Employment & CareerStigma & BullyingAccess & Rights
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2022
7 points

>No one is gonna physically harm you because of your stutter just stutter who cares This is usually true, but does remind me of a time I was at a bar a few years ago and almost got in a fight caus...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2022
2 points

That’s awful. One of my parents was like that so I cut him off permanently. In my opinion, it’s borderline impossible to have a relationship with a family member that blames you for your neurological ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2022
3 points

I mean, it's still socially considered a choice (like depression was years ago) EVEN in developed countries (I already accepted that down here in latam I won't get an ear in my lifetime)...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2022
1 points

I don’t think they intended to brag or make others feel worse off. But “if I can then anyone can” is incredibly ableist and doesn’t actually help or motivate anyone...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2022
3 points

You're not being stubborn. In fact, if you've been taught "tools", then you feel the way the majority feel about tools. You don't like them because they don't work when you need them. And they're the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterDec 18, 2022
23 points

Stuttering is not a form of amnesia--this post is for ignorant non-stutterers!!

Stuttering is not a form of amnesia--this post is for ignorant non-stutterers!! Do people think we have amnesia because we stutter??? They always ask if "you forget your name"???? Why would we ever f...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterDec 18, 2022
1 points

Do you know sign language???

Do you know sign language??? A few years ago at CHRISTmas time....I was shopping...and I was stuttering some...and this sales girls asks politely if I knew sign language??? I was sort of taken aback--...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
3 points

Not trying to be negative at all but I can not possibly understand how opening yourself up to being mocked, made fun of or insulted that undoubtedly leads to some type of trauma being a good thing....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
2 points

The being left out part: I can relate!!! Like 20 yrs ago...the place I work at made me wear earplugs to focus......but in hind site I think it was to prevent me from speaking....if I couldnt hear oth...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingLoneliness & Isolation