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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2024
1 points

Yea, that's a good idea. Maybe a YT video playlist about stuttering onset/development regarding how a neutral stimulus turns into a conditioned stimulus (that elicits a conditioned response) aka a tri...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionTrauma & Psychological+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2024
5 points

There’s no reason to hate my stuttering; it’s always a part of me. I’ve heard that acceptance leads to its disappearance. I always try to accept my stuttering, and it brings me less anxiety, less worr...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2024
2 points

Is this a troll comment, and do you have a stutter? "Regardless, if you can sometimes articulate a sound, but other times, it’s not coming out to the degree you consider changing your own name, it’s ...

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postr/StutterNov 15, 2024
8 points

Crush

Crush I have a crush on someone and EVERYTIME I start a sentence I block but they’re very small and often unnoticeable, but recently I think my stutter has started to flare up more and I’m very nervou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2024
2 points

Based on what I think you are saying, your first paragraph almost proves my point. Regardless, if you can sometimes articulate a sound, but other times, it’s not coming out to the degree you conside...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionTrauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterNov 15, 2024
23 points

Should I start presentations with a "heads up I might stammer" slide?

Should I start presentations with a "heads up I might stammer" slide? I'm 50 years old, an academic, and I've been working my ass off for decades now testing ways to deal with a stammer. It's mild - [...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2024
2 points

I think I understand what you mean. You feel like you are performing so you are not able to feel the moment and your emotions. You’re just looking for good results in your social interaction so that y...

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Authenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2024
2 points

No, it’s about being a shamed and it matters more what a Woman thinks about you than what a Man thinks about you. (At least if you are single) One had probably been rejected and felt like his stutte...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2024
1 points

I am also much worse around my extended family. They are a loud bunch who talk over each other and i think that pushes me over the edge of fluency. I have skipped some family gatherings over the year...

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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2024
1 points

Do you also stutter with males? Do you maybe treat girls better, like putting on pedestal which can create more stress, instead treating them like equal humans, so if she will have problem with your s...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2024
3 points

This is what helped me best: 1. Practice “singing” through words. I don’t know how scientific this is, but I’ve heard that singing uses a different part of your brain than talking, and I’ve never onc...

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Fluency TechniquesStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2024
2 points

I’ve been made fun of, avoided, and seen the faces people have made to the reaction of my stuttering. It’s hard to just not think about it. I hide it so well tho. It’s like women will come up and talk...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2024
2 points

Maybe so. I don't know how long they've had that rule in place. I think it's because Cure is associated with 100% done with, and a lot of people on this sub are in a very vulnerable state. Being alre...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2024
3 points

I don’t get made fun of nor do I see listeners getting annoyed. People are more worried about money, family, and happiness. Dealing with stuttering gets easier in college and adulthood. Tell yourself ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideValidation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2024
1 points

It is understandable because i also have this type of trauma. It developed when i was studying in co education , and girls tend to make more fun of me as compared to boys. I am not misogynist but i am...

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Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2024
2 points

Start singing bro, a weird advice but it can help, sing songs, new, old and learn to talk without the expectation anxiety of stuttering because that can itself lead to stuttering and even if you do, w...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Situational VariabilityAnxiety & Social JudgmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
postr/StutterNov 13, 2024
19 points

Please help me! I'm really feeling helpless.

Please help me! I'm really feeling helpless. I'm 17 and I'm just fed up with my stuttering problem. Just a few minutes back, my mom's frined who lives in our society rang the doorbell and asked where ...

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postr/StutterNov 13, 2024
4 points

I can only speak when I am alone

I can only speak when I am alone I (27/M) create content on TikTok and also YouTube, so I spend a lot of time talking alone in front of a camera. What really confuses me is that in my videos I can se...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterNov 13, 2024
4 points

Could you give me a job online?

Could you give me a job online? I have been unemployed for a long time. Social anxiety and stuttering make it difficult for me to find a job. My job interviews are a disaster. So I thought I would ask...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2024
1 points

I'm also an extrovert gaslighting myself to be a introvert I can say many words fluently but this fear makes those easy words hard, I struggle at beginning once I'm comfortable I can use those words a...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names