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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2023
1 points

Yes, this encapsulates the entire stuttering experience perfectly. This is the reason why most of us suffer extreme anxiety in speaking situations and find it hard to accept ourselves. We have been l...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2023
1 points

I'm saddened by this. I don't stutter. I've seen someone be hurtful to another person who had a stammer, when I was a young teen. I've never forgotten the hatred I feel for that guy. Still do. I hav...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2023
4 points

I have an IQ in the 160s and absolutely know what I'm talking about at work or when giving advice, but people still disregard what I'm saying and think I'm stupid....

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2023
3 points

I had this same viewpoint all throughout highschool (and still sometimes now. Customer service jobs yanno) but my coworkers and my newfound group of friends don’t treat me like a freak or make me feel...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2023
2 points

Your education reassures you of your intelligence and accomplishment. Self-esteem is very important to those of us who have been treated with disdain because our speech isn't fluent. Any achievement i...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2023
39 points

This kind of attitude infuriated me for so long in my life, and even now in my 30s. The way (some) people blatantly head down or start scrolling on their cellphone when you start to stutter, I feel so...

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2023
3 points

Ive had a similar experience throughout my life aswell. I admit school was hard at times but as I got older I just stopped caring about what other people thought and that helped me so much...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2023
10 points

People have this concept that if you have a stutter than you must be dumb. I’m fairly accomplished with a masters and I still encounter this. It makes me feel horrible at the same time fills me with r...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2023
7 points

Same here. It's almost as though the cure for a stutter is to get the fuck out of high school. I still stutter, but it's nowhere near as bad because I'm not in constant fear of being ridiculed....

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School & Academic LifeStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2023
17 points

What a terrible experience. High school was terrible for me too. I could speak with more ease in the university though. The emotional maturity of the students was greater and I was more accepted for m...

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School & Academic LifeStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterFeb 28, 2023
112 points

You get no fucking respect at all when you stutter

You get no fucking respect at all when you stutter The moment you stutter the person you are talking to looks at you like a freak. It is so condensing. People treat me like a special needs child. I re...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2023
0 points

yes, you very much so are. probably one of the most ignorant people I've ever met on reddit, and that's saying something...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
postr/StutterFeb 27, 2023
28 points

mental breakdown

mental breakdown I just had a mental breakdown, I cried for tye first time in 2 years and why? Because I couldn't say a fucking word. I'm a pathetic loser I know, crying over a fucking word. I just ca...

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
1 points

Fucking idiot, I never said stuttering makes you mentally incapable, my whole point was that stuttering makes your life hard in general. You're an idiot if you want to increase your chances for your k...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
2 points

Your a idiot. There stuttering has nothing to do with mental or physical strength/efficiency. You act like it's a mental retardation that effects IQ. It's a slight handicap, most caused by childhood t...

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Trauma & PsychologicalStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2023
3 points

Or you're always found guilty because everytime you're on the stand, you stutter and then the jury thinks that you're lying....

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postr/StutterFeb 21, 2023
7 points

I just wanted to share my experience in my college class I had today, to show everyone we are not alone in this group.

I just wanted to share my experience in my college class I had today, to show everyone we are not alone in this group. So I was in my college class and there is 3 of us one of which i consider to be m...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2023
4 points

It happens rarely what when in happens It hurts a lot. About three weeks ago I had to present myself ti a brunch of people and among them there was a girl. As soon as I had finished my sentenze She st...

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postr/StutterFeb 20, 2023
52 points

Does anyone else feel like people don’t respect you because of your stutter?

Does anyone else feel like people don’t respect you because of your stutter? I feel like most people that I interact with don’t treat me like a grown, respectable man. I hate to have a victim mindset,...

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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2023
5 points

Every job interview I have had, I stuttered and never got any calls back. It sucks. People can be so judging. I have a masters degree and have presented at 4 geology conferences, but still cannot land...

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Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying