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commentr/StutterSep 9, 2022
1 points

Once I learned to put some of the techniques to use I found it helped a bit. There were certain methods that I just sort of learned I had to weave into my usual manner of speaking, so I guess now it's...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterSep 9, 2022
22 points

When I'm at Dairy Queen, I say Lizard instead of Blizzard to avoid stuttering and no one has noticed.

When I'm at Dairy Queen, I say Lizard instead of Blizzard to avoid stuttering and no one has noticed. For the past year or so, I've been ordering "lizards" at Dairy Queen and it has worked quite well ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
1 points

I’ve had ups and downs, particularly in high school and my early 20s, but I never stopped going after what I wanted. Had embarrassing moments, days I came home and buried my face in my pillow, etc. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
1 points

My parents took me to doctor for my stuttering treatment when I was 10 (I'm 18 now) i have always had severe anxiety. The doc told my parents that they have to keep telling me that ""I'm alright and t...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
4 points

"I'll always be a stutterer. But that doesn't mean I'll always stutter." I love this! My story is similar to yours. I was fortunately able to attend speech therapy at a young age and I found I had to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentFluency TechniquesEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
6 points

As a stutterer as well, I think it does help more-so with the tension. Sure it won’t help with the stutter, but it will help with taking everyone by surprise. Everyone has a ‘shock factor’ reaction...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
3 points

A verbal disclosure doesn’t help much for someone that stutters lol. People used to “tell me to disclose your stutter” and I’d laugh and say “not easier said than done”...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
0 points

I could have told you this at age 7 (20 years ago). I could speak fluently around some people and stutter around others. In your head....

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
3 points

I’ve been there, in high school and especially college. A few things helped me: 1. Practice your answers infront of a mirror until until you can say then fluently. Knowing what you’re going to say, h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Preparation & RehearsalMindfulness & BreathingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
5 points

My brothers stutter is more severe than mine but we have discussed stuttering so much so I feel as if I could answer these questions easily for him. Dating with his severe stutter had never been an is...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
3 points

Absolutely! The post linked at the end of this comment has a pretty good description of my experiences and success. I make about eight comments in the thread, covering a lot of ground. Other questio...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Seeking TherapyHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
4 points

People have different intensities/types of stuttering. For people who have progressed to the point where they subconsciously engage in numerous primary and secondary anticipatory behaviors *that res...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
2 points

I definitely had low confidence when I was younger and was a clingy bad boyfriend to the few girls nice enough to date me haha My stutter was a lot more sever when I was younger but I never found i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
6 points

I think it matters only because I limit myself when talking to others because I am afraid of stuttering. I am afraid that others will think it’s wierd if I stutter. Why I am thinking like this I do no...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
4 points

I’m gay but I dated girls in my discovery phase. Honestly I was much more confident in middle school probably cause I never felt insecure about my stutter. High school was an awakening phase when I re...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2022
3 points

If you feel comfortable enough you could mention to the group that you stutter before you start the presentation. When people know that I stutter (I’m a covert stutterer) it sometimes helps me stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
1 points

I feel you. Sometimes I have to say “awesome thank you” to person taking my order. Somehow saying awesome makes it easier for me to say thank you. Actually my bf says that every time when he orders he...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2022
2 points

Wtf is this me in another universe 🤣 I literally say preciate it and alrighty thank you and I struggle with the open door thing too. I just say something like "cool thanks" even though it sounds weir...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterSep 5, 2022
60 points

5 Truths About Stuttering Speech Therapists Will Never Tell You

5 Truths About Stuttering Speech Therapists Will Never Tell You 1. Stuttering while feeling a deep sense of belonging is virtually impossible. 2. The most effective way to "work on your speech" is by...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2022
1 points

I use the McGuire Program self help book but never attended the course. Amazing program if you commit hard. Pair the program with John Harrison’s “Redefining Stuttering” book. The program basically ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
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