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postr/StutterSep 4, 2021
17 points

Any advice

Any advice Why does it feel like I’m not worthy of anything in life I have a stutter (dint know if it’s caused by anxiety or genetics. I had it since I was a kid it disappeared when I was in middle s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2021
5 points

I was in your shoes when I was in high school. I gave up on trying to speak and just slipped through high school and my undergrad without uttering a word unless I had to. I had a couple really good fr...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & IsolationSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterSep 1, 2021
59 points

Stuttering is not a problem of speech because it is not speaking that makes us stutter.

Stuttering is not a problem of speech because it is not speaking that makes us stutter. Disclaimer: This is probably not relevant to those who stutter after brain damage. I know when I'm going to stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2021
1 points

John Harrison has written about this many years ago. If you haven’t read it I think you’d enjoy it as articulates some of what you’re getting at here https://www.stuttering-specialist.com/post/underst...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2021
1 points

U must think over this question this way:If no stutter,are u responsible to have baby? I think reproduce is not human's mission in modern society....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
postr/StutterAug 27, 2021
9 points

🐤 The ONLY 2 Reasons you get STUCK in a stuttering state (PART 2/2)

🐤 The ONLY 2 Reasons you get STUCK in a stuttering state (PART 2/2) 🐤 The ONLY 2 Reasons you get STUCK in a stuttering state (PART 2/2) If you haven't seen my last post about the first reason we ge...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2021
2 points

I got you. My mom says the same, I also think it's not worth it not to have a baby just because he/she is probably doomed to stutter... But it's complicated, this question....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2021
2 points

First, thanks for sharing your case, it really is a big reference to my further judgements. I'm 19 years old, and I'm not quite walking out of my stuttering, I still struggle with it which means I f...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterAug 27, 2021
20 points

My mom stutters, I stutter. Should I have baby?

My mom stutters, I stutter. Should I have baby? I really don't want my child to suffer what I've been through....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2021
2 points

I completely understand you, my dude. People need to stop saying "it's gonna be okay" because it's never going to be okay. I am 17 and I am crying like 2-3 times a day. When I see my friends cracking ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2021
3 points

First, a huge thank you to all who responded and reached out. Me and my son thank you. Second. Me and my wife try to be as supportive as we possibly can. It gets frustrating sometimes and we may snap ...

Emotional ExperienceParent & Caregiver
Helplessness & AgencyHome Support
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2021
3 points

One thing stuttering has done to me is humble me. The pain got too much one day and I cut all connections with everyone I had met except one friend I respected because I wanted to leave behind my past...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2021
3 points

Stuttering is your way of communicating. You can choose to see this as fortunate or unfortunate. I go back and forth between the two even at the age of 41. From family finishing my sentences to those ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterAug 25, 2021
6 points

Any advice for stuttering?

Any advice for stuttering? When I was 12 years I got scared by a dog and ever since then I began to stutter. I am 22 years old now and I feel like the stutter has gotten worse. It’s hard for me to say...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationTrauma & PsychologicalHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2021
3 points

These thoughts are literally killing me from the inside i am slowly hating everything i love slowly pushing people away from me Maybe one day we will find rest....

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2021
2 points

You are not alone. I battle everyday with those thoughts. Watching people taking the ability to speak for advantage. If only I could do that. But for some reason, I’m still around. I trek the never ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2021
2 points

Truthfully, I do not think the stutter is what is causing these feelings. It's very similar to when you hear "If I only had a boyfriend/girlfriend then I would be happy." Just like those lonely people...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Helplessness & AgencySeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2021
6 points

I am 19 years old , going to second semester in university seeing everyone living their university life crushes me , whether we like it or not speech is so important in your personality , i feel lik...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2021
9 points

How old are you? I find these thoughts accompany people who are younger in life who haven’t found their place yet. I was like this when I was younger, jealous of the gift of speaking everyone else had...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterAug 25, 2021
63 points

Hopefully i don't wake up tomorrow

Hopefully i don't wake up tomorrow Like bro this is so tough , my god when i see my family do their daily activities talk over the phone and having fun i wish if i can experience that feeling. soci...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more